Arab men are sooo sexy!

Video on sexy and hot men some from Middle East, some blacks ready for romance and gay love. Soundtrack: Desert Rose by Sting and Cheb Mami Men of the Desert – Sexy Men and Hot Boys for Gay Romance…

AMMAN (AROL)– The issue of male homosexuality in the Arab world remains a taboo and untapped subject away from national debate.

This tendency is not spoken about openly– though male-male friction is acknowledged. Nor is it legally recognized in these conservative societies.

While the issue of recognizing male homosexuality is not totally different from other countries, male Arab homosexuality has indeed a different notion from that in the West.

Gay activities are frowned upon in Islam but a set of cultural and traditional taboos has played a role in the acquiescence of much of these sexual activities if confined to a certain set of moral conducts.

That is to say, homosexual behavior may be overlooked but experiencing feelings of an emotional nature beyond sex makes a man gay and hence, a potential outcast. In a society where the family bond, “honor” and image are extremely important, many tend to follow the dictates and norms of society, even if this means living in conflict with their inner feelings.

Sex vs. emotions
Many Arab men make a distinction between sex and emotional attachment. Bruce Dunne, author of an article titled Power and Sexuality in the Middle East, believes that sexual relations in the Middle East are about power. He writes: “Sexual relations in Middle Eastern societies have historically articulated social hierarchies, that is, dominant and subordinate social positions: adult men on top; women, boys and slaves below…Both dominant/subordinate and heterosexual/homosexual categorizations are structures of power.”

Having pure, raw sex with another man and being the active partner doesn’t make a man gay. This notion of same-sex is also true in the West. It differs, however, with regard the application.

“Since the concept of same-sex relations does not exist in the Arab world, being ‘Gay’ is still considered to be a sexual behavior,” says Outreach Director of the Gay and Lesbian Arab Society, Ramzi Zakharia, in an e-mail interview. But according to Western definition, “that limits it to ‘homosexual’ behavior, which does not mean that the person is Gay. Just because you sleep with a member of the same sex does not mean you are Gay… it just means that you are engaging in homosexual activity. Once a relationship develops beyond sex (i.e: love) this is when the term gay applies,” adds akharia.

He believes that gays in the Arab world, unlike those in Western societies, “limit their activities to sex and rarely explore feelings beyond that,” experience.

Impressions from a European
European-born Marcus, who has been in Jordan for two months, has already noticed a remarkable difference between the Kingdom and his native country. While he says that the men he has met generally shy away from emotional intimacy mostly because they experience inner conflicts, these same men are capable of justifying a purely sexual experience.

Having sex (discreetly) is alright, and sometimes even seen as an exploit. It is therefore justified.

Men holding hands or walking arm in arm are familiar scenes in Arab streets. In general men are more intimate with each other than they are in the West and a man without a woman at his side is not really seen as strange, Marcus observes.

These scenes would not draw the eyes of passersby, but the same man-to-man intimacy could be outrightly interepreted in the West as a gay relationship.

“It is much easier to meet men and be close to them here,” Marcus says.

(This article focuses only on male homosexuality. This reporter tried to interview females and to tackle the issue of female homosexuality, without results. Arab and Jordanian women are quite reserved and inhibited on this issue, even anonymously, for fear of causing problems to their friends).

Marcus, 29, is gay. He is in the country for the first time learning Arabic. Marcus preferred not to use his real name. Although he says he feels more at ease about being gay in Jordan than he does in his home town, he did not want his colleagues at work to read his name.

Marcus says he feels comfortable approaching a man in Jordan with frankness about his desires. Even though the man may not be gay there is some sort of “understanding” at what is going on, and little or no offence would be taken.

Some men interviewed in Jordan, however, appeared offended at the mention of this topic and they even refused to bring up the issue in general. When they did finally speak about homosexual behavior and gays– which they believed were the same– they spoke with repulsion and with harshness.

But Marcus says he has not yet experienced anything of this sort and life for a gay in Jordan is much easier in some ways. Back in his home, a man cannot easily approach or look at another man. “We have the legal recognition but we have a social taboo,” Marcus says.

Living a dual life
It may be easier to engage in homosexual behavior, but it certainly is not the case when emotions are involved. This Arab distinction of sex versus emotional attachment is largely derived out of a conflict with dualreligion and tradition. Arab men engage in homosexual behavior, and don’t cross the realm of being gay in order not to morally hurt themselves or their families. These Arab men would prefer (though not because they really want to) to fit into society’s mold and they justify their sexual preferences as “something men do”, and not as “something I do because I am gay.”

If these same people were living in Western societies, they would most probably be gay and not only engage in homosexual sex. In the West, those who are gay will cross the homosexual boundaries, even if that means staying in the closet. In the Arab world, only some do. Many, however, live a dual life.

Indeed, several gay Arab men living in the US have said that when they return to their homes for long visits, they adapt to societal expectations of them as men, become “hypocritical” and engage in only homosexual behavior, if they do at all.

“They (Arab men) do not face friends/families or even themselves with the truth of their identity. Rather, the majority will carry on with society’s plans, get married, get the kids… and then either carry on sexual relations on the side… or vent out their sexual frustrations on Alcohol, Drugs, Spouse Abuse, and other negative and destructive behavior,” according to Zakharia.

Homosexuality for Arabs contradicts and even undermines the male, patriarchal image as a “macho” in Arab societies.

A non-typical Arab male?
One 26-year-old Lebanese of Palestinian origin living in Canada explains his conflict, similar to the feelings of many others like him. The following was received from him by e-mail and is printed without editing. He did not want his name used:

I am a non-typical gay Arab male who grew up in Lebanon and then migrated to Canada. Non-typical, I say, because I find myself very different from the gay Arab men (gay men in general) that I know. And I know quite a few. I am able to find a trend in my behavior as I also recognize the common traits that I find in the men I am acquainted with. This leads me to believe that I am different and perhaps they are the norm.

In addressing my homosexuality I try to reconcile many things, namely religion, family, culture and image. Religion , in my mind, tells me not to over indulge. It also is a source of guilt and fear of God. I am Muslim but my friend tells me that my guilt is a Catholic guilt.

My parents raised me with a set of expectations that no matter how much I fight and how compromising my parents get, still is embedded in me. It is inherent that I must succeed. It is inherent no matter what my limitations are. Not to say that my parents will disown me or hurt me. They are very loving. Too loving sometimes. By too loving I mean that they foster dependence to a point that makes me feel controlled most of the time and safe the rest of the time.

Arab culture as I see it is two tier. One side is the culture itself which I love and want and am proud of, the other level is culture in the context of common society. Arabs are perhaps the most hypocritical ( in my view ) when it comes to values. The facade is that of religion and morality. Behind the closed doors is everything else. The two main things I pray one day will happen are that we will become assertive internationally and protect our rights, the other is that we will undo the sexism that we are notorious for.

The last aspect is image. This is personal. We can blame everyone but we must also look within. I look at myself honestly and I see a guy who does not entirely accept himself. This is the number one hindrance to change. I see myself being proud and then I see myself being quiet and complacent. I attribute that to me. I am not being up to the challenge of being gay. I see myself wanting a woman and children whenever I am acquainted with a girl who may be interested in me in the context of marriage.

As I said I am non-typical or I choose to feel this way. I try to reconcile heterosexual values with homosexual life. I go in circles and I find that it all boils down to me as a person. I have to be happy. I find what makes me feel happy, what fulfills me and the rest just falls into place.

In brief, growing up I was a naive and chronically introverted kid with a lot of imagination and no support or anyone to share with. I was never really able to conceive what sex was in its biological sense until I was in Canada and was reading a lot. I did not know about anal sex until I read about it. I never experimented with other boys. The closest I got to that was physical play such as wrestling with my friend.

How do you know the Earth is not flat until you are told it is not? When one looks at it, the Earth looks flat. Similarly society looks heterosexual.

This young man considers himself a non-typical Arab gay, but another young Arab man pointed out in a response to him that he was in fact typical:

I am a non-typical gay Arab male you’re wrong. You ARE the typical Gay Arab male. Your post was very interesting. You reminded me what I was a few years ago, but also I realized that I didn’t advance so much!. When I go home or when I am with my family, I am exactly like you.

Homosexual sex is not new. It has been around in the Arab world for a long time. The problem is love. “Once you decide to explore your identity beyond sexual activity, once you decide to reject your patriarchal role… this is when you get in trouble,” Zakharia says.

In countries such as Lebanon, Palestine, Egypt, Syria, and Jordan, society is slowly changing and emulating the West. With their proximity to Western culture and thought, and people being exposed to new concepts regarding gender roles and sexuality, platforms for debate on homosexuality are opening up.

In Lebanon, society is slowly shifting from a Patriarchal model to a “nuclear” family model; this year’s attempt to introduce civil marriage is a prime example. Other post-Colonialist countries in the region are following, such as Tunis, Zakharia says.

See the full and original thread here: http://www.arab-gay.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=109

ButtyBoy
09-10-2007, 01:54 PM
I’d like to know why you (non-Arabs) like sex with Arabs so much. I think I already know (LOL), I’m just curious if your reasons are the same as mine
ptitprince
10-16-2007, 09:18 PM
I guess that because they are good looking, sexy, charming, viril, sensual. They are hot! Anyway, I never had experience with Arabs but they really look like being awesome
قرامطة
10-17-2007, 04:32 AM
رسالة خاصة
بس مع صورة
webmaster
10-17-2007, 06:46 AM
رسالة خاصة
بس مع صورة

Please speak English in this forum. Thanks.
قرامطة
10-19-2007, 06:32 AM
Im so soory , but nobady hear can spik Arabic ?
becuse Im not very good in English.
webmaster
10-19-2007, 02:41 PM
Im so soory , but nobady hear can spik Arabic ?
becuse Im not very good in English.

You can speak Arabic in this (http://www.arab-gay.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=7) forum.
Indo_man
10-20-2007, 08:23 PM
hello, all. i am non arab, but arab men especially the hairy chest one attracts me so hard. and i dont know why
nafez
10-22-2007, 06:48 AM
I like the nice smooth tan skin dark hair and eyes..and they call them camel jockies for a reason ; )
geisha
10-28-2007, 01:12 PM
Wooo… this is an interesting topic, I like it!

Hi! I’m geisha from Singapore.
I’ve just joined the community and is relatively new here.

I’ve only realised recently that I’m madly in love with Arabian/Middle Eastern men… well, of course, I’ve never tried one yet, haha~ :p

But undeniably, Arabian/Middle Eastern men are generally: marcho, tall, dark, handsome, hairy… and bulky… and these are what I’m attracted to!

I’m seriously looking for an Arab boyfriend.
If any of you have any good suggestions to help in my search, please do not hesitate to advise me!

Thanks and have lots of fun!
geisha
azarab
10-28-2007, 05:20 PM
What I like about arabs… (as a non arab myself)
the colour of their dark brown eyes make me feel weak…
the colour and the smell of their skin make me wild…
their smiles makes me feel blue…
one touch and I feel lost…
eurolad
10-28-2007, 07:28 PM
Because of their virility… and hairiness.
smooth
11-11-2007, 03:24 AM
hello,all, i first went out with a Lebanese man a year or so back, and sexually he was the best looking, and nicest person, we are not together, due to a rather odd circumstance, but i have since only been with middleeastern men. they just have ”IT” love, smooth steve
DirtyKnees
11-18-2007, 07:50 PM
A fair question, but does anyone know why they are attracted to a specific type? For me maybe it’s the old opposites attract reason? I am blond, blue-eyed, smooth, Anglo-Saxon; Arab men are dark! Dark-eyed, dark skin, beautiful dark eyes, some are hairy, some are smooth (though I tend to go for the hairier ones), definite cultural differences which I always find attractive. The love of my life was Brasilian, but sadly he didn’t feel as strong for me as I did for him so it didn’t work out. However I made alot of Brasilian friends and learned Portugues and consider myself richer as a person for having had the experience and would gladly take the emotional risk with an Arab man too. And don’t you think Arabic is a beautiful language to hear too?
smooth
11-18-2007, 08:40 PM
hello DirtyKnees, i really must agree with what u said, i have dated a Puerto Rican man and a Lebanese man myself. a friend of mine, a hot Black man said that i like ”exotics” i guess he’s right, i am white smooth boy with a mix of English Irish French and Native American. love smooth steve
joha_2004
12-01-2007, 04:54 PM
i like arab men.
they’re are interesting person and very sexually attractive.
they look rough bu inside they’re are very sensitive.
and also they’re great x-factor that they are very good in bed like virility is their great skill.
i know for sure because because i have an arb boyfriend for about three years now.

ciao
smooth
12-01-2007, 11:05 PM
hi Joha, i really love Arab men,unfotunately my Lebanese bf. is no longer around. would love another mid east man ! they are the hottest, sexyest men! love smooth
sandrofantor
12-02-2007, 05:01 PM
Personally, it’s that typical Arabic macho charm that I fall for. My boyfriend has it too, that way of gently but powerfully (and not to be argued against) telling you that he’s gonna do you now and you can either make it hard or easy. It never fails to turn me on
hungrybutt
12-03-2007, 09:29 PM
of the few arabian lovers i had, i enjoyed very much their passion when it comes to kissing and making love. generally speaking, i think they have more interesting bodies, a much more intense smell from their skin, the skin colour also plays a role, and dark eyes are magic to me.

then, as a white european boy, i always enjoyed interesting company from people of different origin. there are so many things to talk to with these people. different backgrounds, different habits make every day more interesting when you hook up as partners. that is of course something, they share with african, asian, american people.

finally, arabian is a terribly sexy language that i could listen to for hours (interupted by kissing, by chance)
Afrasiyab
12-22-2007, 05:23 PM
i have to restrict the conception of Arab, i guess. I am interested in Tunisian and Kuwaiti guys only. Not the whole Arab georgraphy. Arabs sound exotic, i don’t know. I like Arabic, it sounds hot, especially that ‘ayn sound:P
Dalantis23
02-03-2008, 04:31 AM
I hope that my opinion as a half-Arab will be also interesting for all of u

In my opinion the matter of being attractive as an Arab boy is matter of being manful. Most of us, Arabs look and behave manfully, and I think that’s what make people (some ppl of course) crazy about us. Also – dark skin, black big eyes and and black hair make us more manfully-looking. It’s matter of kind of “macho look” I think… And hairy bodies, that some ppl (including me) like a lot…
Moreover – smell of the skin (anyone can explain me why Arabs smell so intensive (and hooot!!!!) ???)
And also – this kind of “I wanna do it with u now, babe !!!!”-behavior plays an interesting role here, hehehe
I had been flirted many times just coz of the reason that ppl in Europe know that I have Arabic origins, and that’s cool
loveseeker
02-03-2008, 07:25 PM
What do I like about Arab men? I do not think their is enough room for me to write. I love their friendliness they always have a smile on their face and a hand extended for a hand shake, they do not hesitate to touch you when conversing, on the shoulder or the arm, Their smile is beautiful bright and full of life. They are ambitious and go getters, they do not wait for a problem to arise they prevent it before it happens. They are passionate in the bedroom and in their lifes, they also want to bring you the most pleasure when having sex with you nomatter hoe long it takes. They just have a energy and a zest for everything. Let me sum it up by telling you what Arab men do to my senses. My sense of sight, they are all so handsome, their dark eyes penitrate you to your soul, their dark hair, they usually have facial hair that drives me wild when in the throws of passion, their lips are full and inviting, their noses are beattiful you just want to kiss their faces all over, their hairy bodies ( most of them), Their beautiful cocks alway big and fat and as hard as a rock, and their carmel colored skin. My hearing, their voices are usually deep and sexy and their accents drive me wild especial when they are making love to youand telling you what they want, the sound of their balls slapping my ass when fucking me so hard. My sense of smell, they smell so good all the time usually wearing a sensuous colonge, but you can smell the exotic spice of their flesh and it draws you closer and closer to them it is an aphrodisiac. And Finally my sense of taste, their lips on mine and their tongue invading my mouth they taste so good, their cock has a flavor that can compare to no other, their ass taste wonderful too, but their cum is the best it is the nectar of the Gods, in the flavor you can taste the exotic Middle Eastern flavors of their diets, I could live on an Arab man’s cum alone. So my friends you can see that I have it real bad for Arab men, they are the BEST LOVERS and have ruined me for anyone else. I hope one day to find a arab man for a long term relationship, but i would settle for beng his mistress or even a quick fuck on the way home. I am quite flushed right now and must take care of business so I will talk to you hot Arab men later.
Michael
smooth
02-03-2008, 08:41 PM
dear Michael – your posting is so well put. i agree exactely with what you say, love steve
frnkly8
02-03-2008, 09:41 PM
I find arab men to be some of the sexiest and usually very well endowed and the one I was seeing was great in bed, he knew how to really make me glad I am a bottom. They can be passionate or rough depending how you want it.
tuogiocattol
02-03-2008, 10:02 PM
perchè l’Arabo ha una corporatura stupenda, forte, maschile, virile:)
Dalantis23
02-03-2008, 11:23 PM
Si – molto virile!

BTW – loveseeker – it’s sounds almost like a poem about Arab men, heheheh. I feel pround
tuogiocattol
02-03-2008, 11:29 PM
It’s very kond you speak italian, yes arab men are fantastics, they have a lovely great dick and a chest formidable like you
Dalantis23
02-03-2008, 11:34 PM
Si – vivo nella Grecia – tutti parlano italiano nell questo pease, ahahah Ma non so che possiamo parlare italiano aqui, in questo forum. Forse solo inglese e arabo, heh.
tuogiocattol
02-03-2008, 11:43 PM
yes i think is right to speak english here, but i speak not well… my dream is that an arab man fuck me
homeguy6
02-20-2008, 01:15 AM
Arab men are obviously sexy, at least to me; intellegent, dark, most of all HAIRY.
davidf36
03-02-2008, 10:25 AM
I love the look of Arab men. I remember staying in an hotel in Marrakesh, and one of the waiters came to my room several times, and I sucked his cock. I still have his picture in my bedroom.
tuogiocattol
03-02-2008, 11:57 AM
well, I was in Jerusalem when I meet an Arab man, name is Rauf. I was out of my bangalow to whash my slip… and I dressing only a nightgown… he came to me and said in Italian “mangi bianco” (you eat with?) I didn’t understend at the moment… he said ” I can help you?” and he went in my room… he take off his dick and told me “eat” and with was the sperm….It was fantastic…. ciao sorry for my english
smooth
03-02-2008, 01:45 PM
nothing like middle eastern men ,so nice ,so sweet …………love smooth steve
arab_lover
03-08-2008, 12:29 PM
Hi all – I am asian – I like Arabs based on their looks. They are so masculine – very good lookin (not all)! hahaha. Also – their hairy body gets my libido going. Unfortunately – some smell bad and it turns me right off. Still want to try one though!
loveseeker
03-08-2008, 02:19 PM
This message goes to the Australian asian so called “arab lover”. I think your comments were made in poor taste. They were extremely rude, shallow, disrespectful, immature, ignorant, and most definitely made by a superficial, self scented, conceited little asshole.
This site is dedicated to Arab men and the men who love them. Where do you get off making such comments. You are cleared and uneducated juvenile who should keep her opinions to herself. Think about it you just came to an Arabic site dedicated to Arab men and men who love them and just insulted an entire race based on what you said.
Imagine this if you can, that i would go to a web site for men who like asian men and were to say I would like to try asian men but they are all short, own laundries, and all have small cocks. But i want to try one just to say i tried one.
smooth
03-08-2008, 02:27 PM
to love seeker- this is from another ARABIC lover-i could not agree more with what you said , love smooth steve
geisha
04-01-2008, 05:39 PM
Hello to loveseeker and smooth:

Yes, I know I’m Asian… but I can’t help it but to support the both of u!!!
I’m madly in love with Arab men in every way they are, so I do feel the same insult from “arab lover”… and why on earth would someone call himself an “arab lover” when in actual fact u don’t really love them, was this meant to be an insult or another joke also? And what’s about the Asian-Australian status? So u’re an Asian residing in Australia or what? And how do u feel being an Asian in Australia, b’cos I’ve heard so much horrid stories of how racist some native Australians are and how they hate Asians in Australia! Oh my, to start with u’re oh-so confused! :confused:

I’m definitely Asian, a Chinese from Singapore (b’cos Singapore is in Southeast Asia) in fact… but how would I to describe an Asian to all of u non-Asians here… :rolleyes:
Well, I’m not tan like what u think people from Thailand are (Thailand is also part of Southeast Asia). I’m not short at all, I’m 1.78m and I’m lean and fair… or should I say I look more like those people in Hongkong, Taiwan or Japan.
But one thing I must admit… the probability of getting an Asian man with huge dick is not as high as one from the Middle East!!!

Hope everyone is enlightened now!
Geisha
duhleenkwint
04-02-2008, 09:05 AM
Most of the posts on here mention specific physical traits, but not what drew them to those traits in the first place. With me, it’s my mom’s fault! My parents (liberal Jews) made friends with our new neighbor, a half-Palestinian half-Persian man who’d had a very hard life. His wife and son were killed in the Lebanese civil war, and although he looked VERY fit and muscular, he had a bad heart condition and back problems. My mom made me go help him around the house. At first I resented it. I hated the idea of having to mow TWO lawns. But then as I got to know him, I was fascinated. He would cook me the most mysterious and delicious food, and going into his house was like entering another world, with exotic furniture, books, and art I’d never seen before in typical USA suburbia. He was flattered by my curiosity, and would explain everything he could about his home in Lebanon, Persian culture, and all that gorgeous nonrepresentational art. I loved his thick black eyelashes, those deep sensitive eyes, and the way he spoke, with those hardened R’s and softened V’s, and then one day, WHAM!! I saw him nude. He had thrown his back out trying to get out of the bath. Nothing ever sexual happened, but that was not only when I knew for sure that I loved men, but THAT kind of guy was forever imprinted on my sexual aesthetic.
ButtyBoy
04-02-2008, 09:36 AM
Hi there duhleenkwint! It was very interesting to read what it was that drew you to the kind of guys you (and I) like. Lovely story. Being open to other cultures is a great thing. Your post is making me wonder how I myself became interested in the type of guys that I like. I don’t really have the answer right now. I probable forgot about it, but there must be something. You defenately gave me something to think about for today!
smooth
04-02-2008, 01:34 PM
yes ,i agree, great story, i’ll think of your story ,today too
daold
04-03-2008, 01:08 PM
Middle eastern men (the one i met) are loving, sexy, hung and will do anything for you.

I would love to find another Arab that will want to have a lasting relationship..

Know any in Brisbane Australia, then let me know =)
xboom3r
04-26-2008, 06:42 PM
They’re viril like latinos
maturelondon
04-27-2008, 02:00 PM
usually they are quite shy when talking about sex or in the emails … but in the bedroom they enjoy long foreplay and they keep it going for a long time what else to wish for ….?
kalakala1414
04-27-2008, 02:12 PM
Arab Men tends to be hairy and sexy and I LOVE THAT!
KRUZKY
04-27-2008, 04:00 PM
Because Arab men fuck like real men.
nikazman
04-28-2008, 04:28 PM
Love their big cock and hairy bodies…very hot and aggressive top…all night fuck..
maturelondon
04-28-2008, 07:32 PM
Hi again Nik, some arab men I met are only mildly hairy. Not all are bears …
My experience mainly gulf (UAE) men. And it is true, they have great stamina, being hard long long time
smooth
04-28-2008, 07:42 PM
hi guys ,my best lover was LEBANESE,he was 9” and thick ,fairly smooth,cut cock, but damn ,i ain’t never had anyone better ,before or since,what stamina,,,,,,and could shoot loads of sweet cum………
maturelondon
04-28-2008, 07:47 PM
no doubt one of the things i enjoyed more with my arab lovers was their stamina … and being horny and ready all times for steamy sex
nikazman
04-28-2008, 10:03 PM
And when they fuck they are really enjoy it and love it when they ejaculate powerfully hard inside and such sexy sound too…
smooth
04-28-2008, 10:05 PM
and the wonderful scent of their sexy bodies………sweet…….
nikazman
04-28-2008, 10:09 PM
love the spicy smell…musky sweaty body afterwards…
pelonsgv
04-29-2008, 01:48 AM
Arab Men are erxtremely hot!!!!!
As a latino…………I prefer a dark skin hairy man
geisha
05-09-2008, 06:26 PM
Hey! U guys are making me to want an Arab guy more than ever!!!

Arrrh! Help!
Geisha
ttravis69
05-10-2008, 10:46 PM
Hot, hot, hot!
nomorefishin
05-15-2008, 05:28 PM
I don’t think I can list any additional reasons beyond what’s been listed in previous posts.

:p
London_
05-15-2008, 08:28 PM
Arab men, simply sexyyy…!!
sony15
05-18-2008, 10:52 PM
I like them very much. They are so heavy!
nomorefishin
05-18-2008, 10:57 PM
Arabic tops… get me every time. Never been with one, unfortunately.

I remember goin’ out to the clubs where there would be large groups of them. Oh man…. so nice…
heinz57v
05-19-2008, 01:19 AM
I like Arab men because I have found them to be very sensual in the bedroom and great dancers who manage to entice and express sexuality without being feminine like many gay men in the west who think that to be sexy or sensual they have to copy women. Men are allowed to kiss male friends on the cheek and dance with their male friends in ways that aren’t common in northern European and Anglo cultures. Straight men are allowed more expression of affection for male friends and this allows for a sense of male sexuality that to my mind is more organic and natural much as how homosexuality was practiced in the Ancient west in Greece and Rome. What we have in Europe and America and the wider Anglo-world is something different born out of the conservatism of protestant reformation and the counter-reformation which exerts the idea that men are to deny any sexual emotions on the surface as are women to a lesser degree and that affection is unmanly and a sign of weakness. As that social world view started collapsing Victorian era mores revived them as did the return to innocence that happened in America post WWII which is why to this day in progressively less strictness these attitudes persist causing young homosexuals to associate affection, artistic appreciation, and a host of other culture things to be the meaning of gay which has nothing to do with being a man who loves men but ahs more to do with social conditioning of what it means to be a man. I find gay Arabs are more free from these roles- I find they don’t feel the need to fit into a gay culture in order to express their love for other men.
vusinkosi
05-19-2008, 12:09 PM
I am black and Arab men seem to really what to get me inside them

Have other black men found this?

Vusi
atha72
05-20-2008, 01:11 AM
because an arab men can be a really MEN and they are great fu…ers:D:D
brahms67
06-15-2008, 02:34 PM
good news to hear i adore
qatu83
06-16-2008, 06:35 AM
skin color, kind of a forbidden fruit deal
geisha
06-16-2008, 06:46 PM
Yes brahms67!

We all adore your race here, your people are sexy lovers!

My kisses to Arabs!
Geisha
mark529h
08-03-2008, 08:33 PM
i like arab men because they are just sexy. i think one of the most attractive thing is how many are very hairy. i also like the darker toned skin and the overall personality of the men i have met.
beurs
08-04-2008, 06:56 PM
I like arab men because they seem to be very animalistic. Very hairy and therefore very sexy !
94170400
08-05-2008, 06:03 AM
no reason for me~
xq28
08-05-2008, 09:28 PM
mmmm..
i used to dated locals. and arabs will be my new experience if i have one. if we can get what’s out of the box, one of our fantasies, then i won’t waste my time..

and physically, arabs, are hotter… and their size are legendary. unvulnerable. lol…
fghfgh0000
08-08-2008, 10:45 AM
WOW I Like this website !
nhtj
08-08-2008, 05:56 PM
Arab men are so handsom and maskuline. I know
murdoch1967
08-08-2008, 07:53 PM
I can’t add anything new to this thread but totally agree with all you other guys.
Almani
08-08-2008, 09:42 PM
I like guys that do not look like most of the guys I see all over the day. So for me I would say it’s the “exotic aspect”…
Almani
08-08-2008, 09:43 PM
and of course… arabs are just looking sooo damn hot
dirrrtyboy
08-09-2008, 12:45 AM
A fair question, but does anyone know why they are attracted to a specific type? For me maybe it’s the old opposites attract reason? I am blond, blue-eyed, smooth, Anglo-Saxon; Arab men are dark! Dark-eyed, dark skin, beautiful dark eyes, some are hairy, some are smooth (though I tend to go for the hairier ones), definite cultural differences which I always find attractive. The love of my life was Brasilian, but sadly he didn’t feel as strong for me as I did for him so it didn’t work out. However I made alot of Brasilian friends and learned Portugues and consider myself richer as a person for having had the experience and would gladly take the emotional risk with an Arab man too. And don’t you think Arabic is a beautiful language to hear too?

no, not really lol
fundude79
08-10-2008, 12:47 PM
arabs are sexy. they have a sexy color.. long dicks hairy manly. intense in sex. they are cutey too
shinj
08-11-2008, 04:37 AM
I also like the dark skin and especially the hairy bodies…..yum
dumb_dummy
08-11-2008, 04:36 PM
Arabs men are very masculine and have sharp features tat really turn me on!
mightbe
08-11-2008, 06:49 PM
I guess my friend Faraj has the most awesome body. He has a bubble butt that you could rest a can of pepsi on. I have stared at it for 6 years. There is nothing more that I would like is to spend an evening pleasing him. His feet are so different than any other man I have ever been with. His dick has to be 9 plus. I wish to be with a man like him someday.
rikkie
08-11-2008, 09:19 PM
I like arab men for theis strong features their hairy bodys
ButtyBoy
08-11-2008, 11:41 PM
Funny, most of the Arabs I know are not hairy at all.
smooth
08-11-2008, 11:45 PM
yeah ,,,the ones i’ve known here in usa ,,were not very hairy either ,,,plus there were a couple who shaved their pubes and balls smooth
ButtyBoy
08-11-2008, 11:54 PM
Yeah most guys I know shave their pubes and balls very thoroughly and frequently. They always take good care of themselves and are very hygienic. I like that.
FatPapiNY
08-12-2008, 07:43 AM
Almani I agree with you completely. I love the bronze, brown and darker shades and features of the Arab men. To me they are very masculine. I need an Arab boyfriend now!
smooth
08-12-2008, 04:03 PM
funny ,the ones i’ve known were actually rather light skinned,,,,ecept for one egyptian,,he was rather dark,,big too ,,,very tall and masculine
spatrick1234
08-15-2008, 01:40 PM
I’ll be pretty honest. As a man who likes other men, I am attracted to men who look nothing like me. I am white with blond hair and blue eyes. I don’t want to date a mirror image of myself. So in general men with darker features and dark eyes (swoon) flip my switch.
geisha
08-15-2008, 04:27 PM
I’ll be pretty honest. As a man who likes other men, I am attracted to men who look nothing like me. I am white with blond hair and blue eyes. I don’t want to date a mirror image of myself. So in general men with darker features and dark eyes (swoon) flip my switch.

I totally agree with u spatrick1234!
U’ve truly explained why I’m always looking out for men of other colors except my own race… hmmm, but no offence here, I’m not a racist either.

Love
Geisha
TomIN
08-16-2008, 03:43 PM
I like Arab men for their dark skin and sexy bodies.
rikkie
08-18-2008, 07:21 PM
I love arabs beause they have big hairy dicks
johnny
08-18-2008, 08:45 PM
Arabs are very manly en have a nice brown skin. thats what i like about arab man.:)
andre
08-19-2008, 02:09 AM
arabs are hot like us, latins
KRUZKY
08-19-2008, 02:49 AM
The Arab guys I’ve had sex with were all the best. They all said they were str8. They all fucked my throat and ass like a man who hadn’t gotten any for a long time and needed it bad. They all pounded the the fuck out of me; deposited their loads; and left. Hot!
topboy
08-19-2008, 04:17 AM
I agree – another blonde – blue eyed whitey…..I’m always drawn to darker, latin, arab, black guys…
volimv
08-20-2008, 04:49 PM
I like arabs because of their color of skin (not black and not white) just great color, and I like them because I think that they have a great cock and they are usually verry hairry.
Ofcourse not all arabs loking great but origin arabs without mix marrigies are very very handsome
scarlet
08-23-2008, 02:41 AM
arab men are more manly, sexy, have lovely coloured skin and no how to service another guy..

whats better than an arab man….two arab men..mmmmmmm
leanguy21
08-23-2008, 04:39 PM
They are masculine, friendly, macho!!
dallascub
08-24-2008, 04:23 AM
For me, Arab men seem to exude pure masculinity. Alot of my attraction is the hairy chests and legs. HUGE weakness for this cub.
Vizier_Aken
08-24-2008, 05:16 AM
To be honest, I really don’t know! I mean, I’m kind of picky with my guys, but something about Arab men tend to turn me on. I’ve yet to actually have one though, since there really aren’t a lot of arabs in my part :[
smooth
08-24-2008, 05:26 AM
i once had a lovely lebanese bf ,,,,i'll never have another like him ,,,,
vinhop99
08-24-2008, 01:03 PM
the dark skin, the body hair i find sexy especially if they have deep brown eyes.
egyypt
08-24-2008, 05:49 PM
i love to be bottom for tops
bma83
08-26-2008, 07:05 AM
They're hot and attractive

08-26-2008, 08:44 AM
im arabic man gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood

08-26-2008, 08:47 AM
i love arabic man

08-26-2008, 08:49 AM
love u all
Sastriel
08-28-2008, 12:52 AM
Now, its my turn ;D

Actually everything has already been said. Anyway I like their dark skin and black hair, their virility, their voice, 3-day-beard looks so good on them, and the way they behave... <3

Hope nothing sounded rude ;D

greetings
scoreggia
09-03-2008, 01:59 AM
they are so hot...
barackobama1
09-04-2008, 03:26 AM
very masculine and hot
Scott747
09-05-2008, 12:28 AM
Because I'm a sucker for brown skin and beautiful, dark brown-black eyes. Makes me weak in the knees. And besides, I've had only good experiences with Arab men.
cabeludo
09-06-2008, 03:20 AM
I love arab men because they're so hairy.
orchid1969
09-08-2008, 12:29 AM
I like especially the hairy chest and the dark skin!
mec1975
09-08-2008, 05:48 AM
Dark skin, black hair, brown/black eyes, hairy and masculine.
Scott747
09-09-2008, 03:31 AM
Im so soory , but nobady hear can spik Arabic ?
becuse Im not very good in English.

I hope you continue to post here - your English is fine for this purpose. I'm just sorry that I can't speak and write Arabic.
Scott747
09-09-2008, 03:33 AM
As far as liking Arabs sexually I guess I agree with most of the other comments - beautiful dark eyes, lovely brown skin, lots of hair (those that don't shave it off) and just plain sexiness.
athenshair
09-09-2008, 10:40 AM
i like arabs! i find them really hot! but mostly i like them because at the same time they can be perfect lovers and great friends!
bonehead3
09-09-2008, 06:58 PM
I enjoy all men who have/maintain body hair! Even though I've seen the hairless trend in gay pics, please! Our Arab friends stay true to your attributes! Your body hair is a perfect compliment to your beautiful skin tone!!
nikazman
09-12-2008, 10:54 AM
good in bed sexy and kind...smell like heaven...big cock and know how to use it...
getit19
09-12-2008, 05:34 PM
I like specially the eyes
nicholas
09-14-2008, 02:00 AM
I like arabs becuse they are very masculine.
tiffany_tv
09-14-2008, 02:27 AM
i think it is the contrast of skin colour that does it for me. Some Arabs can be VERY dark skinned , almost black and that certainly is a bonus in my book.
i love it that many are so masculine, they would never consider themselves bisexual when fucking another man, they merely see it as an opportunity to exerscise their masculinity by being on top and in control. i have mostly found them to be selfish lovers, in general , they want you to take care of them sexually but won't take care of you ! LOL i personally like that a lot, it makes me feel all woman (since i am a submissive transvestite) and i like to fulfil the role of submissive slave who is just there to please her Arab Master.
RJayneMM
09-17-2008, 02:46 PM
Arab men seem to be less hung up about sex in general. They are willing to be close to men in ways that non-arab men are not. They just exude masculinity and they have beautiful body hair. To be looking up at that during sex and knowing that you are totally connected with that is completely intense.
sexyboy91
09-17-2008, 05:39 PM
the manliness is so sexy especially ones with big muslces, and the hair is a very big turn
niceneasy
09-26-2008, 12:27 PM
The reason why I like arabs sexually is they've got everything which is desired by every bottom like me, perfect look, hairy bodies and hot dicks.
Derek43
09-29-2008, 12:52 AM
I am like another response I read. I think opposites attract. I am a non-Arab, with blond hair, blue eyes, fair complexion, normal build, and smooth body. Therefore, black hair, black eyes, dark complexion, and hairy chest just makes my insides go all gooey!

The Arabs I have had sex with have been wonderful lovers. I've heard some can be rough and forceful, but the ones I've been with have been very tender and loving. Some have been "quick on the trigger," but that's not always a bad thing. That just means you have time to find another one!

But some have been very loving and not in a hurry. These are a treasure. When that happens, I make sure I delay their "trigger action" for as long as possible. Rubbing against that hairy chest, working those nipples, and swinging on that large rod is just heavenly.

So, to any of you dark, hairy Arabs out there, if you see a nice blond headed, blue eyed, fair complexion guy giving you the eye and you decide to take him up on his offer. Take your time and enjoy the ride - it will be wonderful for both of us!
unbijay
09-30-2008, 12:31 AM
because they are SEXY!!!!

hairy (thin) stached ones are irresistible!!!

most of them have very attractive round butts

and extremely lovely cocks

and on top of all that, killer smiles too
uptightlimey
09-30-2008, 09:21 AM
Tall, dark, handsome... who can resist?
latinboi
10-01-2008, 06:40 AM
I've never had sex with an arab, but i would imagine it to be something memorable, they are soo macho,but yet can be real sensitive
Even as friends they get touchy feely,haha
i would love to make love with one hopefully one day it will happen!
Polarcoffee
10-03-2008, 05:25 AM
They are tan and hairy, and masculine....
lothar2000
10-03-2008, 05:41 AM
Tan n hairy =)
matt1981
10-05-2008, 07:40 AM
Being a blonde, I am sexually attracted to guy with dark or black body hair. I like that contrast - seeing black crotch hair pressed into blonde pubes. I like the thick busy black armpit hair, the kind that sticks out toward his chest when his arms are relaxed down at his sides. I get turned on during the fuck, smelling that strong, pungent odor from the sweaty hair under his arms. I love the way they tend to always want to please you sexually and have no hang-ups licking the sweaty hair under my arms or is suffering the pain of penetration, and the hard and deep thrusting that gets rough and brutal. The Arab is an extremely sexual man.
smooth
10-05-2008, 12:06 PM
oh my yes ,,,and i must say youve captured the thing of it so well too in your writing ,,,,yummy
pohbear
10-05-2008, 06:37 PM
some of us have never been around arab men, let alone have any "personal" contact.
when all your used to is WASP's; finding a blog like this and maybe make a friend or two is most interesting.
smooth
10-05-2008, 11:32 PM
oh my yes ,,ive had 2 mideast men ,,is all but it lead me here also ,,,ive never lost my quest for mideast men.......they are so nice ,,,,,,,sexy and just undescriable........
Scott747
10-06-2008, 05:44 AM
Why do I like Arab men? First of all I've always been attracted to men with dark skin and Arabs - while covering a broad range of colors - combine this with beautiful deep, dark, black eyes. but I think the most important reason is that Arab men seem to have a combination of dignity and playfullness that I haven't found in other men.
sakros
10-06-2008, 05:52 PM
may be the body appearence..eye skin hairy that make them more sexy
sobad1day
10-07-2008, 06:25 AM
Growing up in the midwest, I was never truly exposed to the privilege of having many arabic friends. In my mid 20s I lived in Chicago IL. I rented a condo from an Arabic gentleman. He befriended me. He was always concerned about me (since I was new to the city and the area for that matter). I guess he made a wonderful impression on me. An impression that tugged at my heart. He was very compassionate, and he taught me many things. So I appreciate many of the Arabic men that I have met thus far.
ronfon
10-07-2008, 06:30 AM
Let's see: 1. lovely skin 2. hair 3. facial features 4. circumcision 5. innate masculinity
I think that covers it pretty well.
msc188
10-09-2008, 01:22 PM
Arabs look macho and tough
msc188
10-09-2008, 01:23 PM
Let's see: 1. lovely skin 2. hair 3. facial features 4. circumcision 5. innate masculinity
I think that covers it pretty well.

I totally agree with ronfon
spiderman
10-10-2008, 02:36 AM
because they so hot and sexy,
betolimo
10-12-2008, 08:55 AM
they turn me on hair, nose, face, eyes everithing they fuckin hot
Danito
10-12-2008, 12:12 PM
eyes and skin for me!
Kivar
10-12-2008, 04:26 PM
I like arab guys because they have dark skin and give me some morbo... where are the guys from Spain?
matt1981
10-12-2008, 11:17 PM
Arabs look more masculine, they have more body hair than the average white guy. I love the thick black hair that covers their chest, the dense thick hair under their arms and the very large triangle of thick and curly black hair at their crotch. They are so clean that during the fuck, the masculine smell from their sweaty armpit hair is awesome - over-whelming and introxicating. they are so sexual
photobxl
10-15-2008, 04:56 PM
I think it's because they know how to fuck...
smooth
10-15-2008, 05:08 PM
they certainly do,,,they like being sucked off too
januzz
10-15-2008, 05:43 PM
I love Arabs mainly because of their masculine attitude, their dark skin, dark hair, brown eyes and fit shape...
Seda
10-15-2008, 08:56 PM
Being tall and blonde, I think the contrast is what I find most appealing with Arab men. I also like, at least from my experience, the sensuality and masculinity of them. They just feel like "real" men.
spiderman
10-16-2008, 01:58 AM
yes i agree,they do feel like real man,,
matt1981
10-16-2008, 08:44 AM
Body Hair: They look so damn masculine. Thick bushy armpit hair that sticks out all over the place, their chest covered with a dense coating of dark hair and that large thick and curly triangle of crotch hair. Being a smooth, green eyed blonde, the thought of an Arab's black body hair getting all wet and sweaty from the fuck is about the most exciting sexual encounter I could have with another guy. They fuck hard and deep, often times really rough and brutal, and make the guy feel it full measure inside his body - the pain and pleasure of the fuck is over-whelming.
CTBear68
10-19-2008, 08:52 PM
Nothing is hotter than a furry, dark/olive-skinned, sensual Arab man, especially Arab bears ~ The most masculine men who know how to please men and in the hottest ways possible! WOOF!
bigboth
10-19-2008, 08:59 PM
i am arabic man and i like to get top from non arab(any)
matt1981
10-20-2008, 12:18 AM
Turn about is fair play! Would be fantastic to have a hot Arab man, with dark bushy chest, armpit and crotch hair underneath me suffering the pain of penetratiion from my big cock and to press my thick and curly blonde pubes against his ass when I get all the way inside his body. Making him sweaty during the fuck and smelling his rich, pungent masculine odor as he takes the fuck.
Peto Antoni
10-20-2008, 09:14 AM
Their dark olive skin, dark good looks , usually a beautiful cock, very sexual and sensual men.
Peto Antoni
10-20-2008, 09:16 AM
Turn about is fair play! Would be fantastic to have a hot Arab man, with dark bushy chest, armpit and crotch hair underneath me suffering the pain of penetratiion from my big cock and to press my thick and curly blonde pubes against his ass when I get all the way inside his body. Making him sweaty during the fuck and smelling his rich, pungent masculine odor as he takes the fuck.

Hey! I second that! I am thick and long and would adore making love to some cute hairy Arab man!
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Daniel1988
10-20-2008, 08:02 PM
I like the dark hair the big dark eyes. the special hairy body´s.
They ´re so hot.
matt1981
10-21-2008, 08:29 AM
I like the fact that most Arab guy have so much body hair. Being a smooth blonde, I am sexually attracted to all that black hair under their arms, all over their chests and at their crotch. Their balls too, coated with a dense covering of fine black hair. And they are so very clean. I always notice how the smell from under their arms is sexual and not the smell of manuel labor. When an Arabs underarm hair gets all wet and sweaty from the fuck, I can't resist but to lick and suck on the sweaty hair. Same with the crotch smell of their thick and curly black pubic hair. I get my nose buried in all that damp and moist crotch hair when his cock gets all the way inside my throat, and the smell is over-whelming - that rich strong pungent masculine musky odor of sex makes me shoot my load.
sahero88
11-01-2008, 05:43 AM
it will be that the Arabs have more hair in the bottom and body ..?

northerly some of them have very little or nothing of hair in the bottom,
I have seen several, your bottom makes me to him very rich .... does it have hair?:):):)
tarrick77
11-01-2008, 02:22 PM
Their masculinity, their skin, their hairy bodies and of course, their dicks!
gaygay99
11-03-2008, 09:06 AM
i like arab men becuz they are into the same things as me, and they are most of the time tall dark and handsome, something i like a lot, but i still like other kinds of men
toranaga_1
11-14-2008, 06:56 PM
Non-Arabs; why do you like Arabs sexually?
What a absurd question, I was many times in Dubai, the arabien males are very aesthetic. For me they have some mystical, and with every arab i have spooken i get a warm welcome ( i mean not Sex ). A charming civilized people.
ahmed fadel
11-14-2008, 07:15 PM
straight arab men that wont approve at first, but will let go and have sex is very arousing for me.
europeanboy3
11-16-2008, 11:00 AM
ohhh, coz they are hot....I didnt ahve any experience with arab man but there is a lot of things i like it...eyes--hot view-sparkling, hair, skin, hairy chest, legs---oooh so hairy, and the buttom, u wanna grab it immediately, smile....hairy hands... nice eyebrows,,,,,but dont like when they smoke...
klites
11-23-2008, 04:18 PM
it happened to me that the guy that i first met was arab, he is perfect! too bad things didn't work out between us..
ce83
11-24-2008, 03:57 AM
I like arabs, because they are so EXOTIC!!!!!!!!! Especially the TOPS, attract me so MUCH!
michael072
12-09-2008, 01:30 PM
I have read some interesting postings in this topics. First I have to say, as a gay- I'am interested in men from all over the world. Not only arab men or men who came from the other parts of the Middle East. But to me they have that little bit more. Most of the time they are gentle, mystical, exotic and know how to flirt.
matt1981
12-10-2008, 06:37 AM
Being considerate, kind, honest and sincere are all great qualities in any Arab or western man, however, this is not what makes me sexually attracted to a man from the middle east. Being a blonde, with less body hair than the darker haired guys, I am attracted to his large amount of black body hair. Even with the younger Arabs, they have thick, bushy armpit hair that sticks out toward the front of his chest, his chest completely covered with thick, dense hair and then a large massive triangle of thick and curly hair at their crotch. His arms and legs are usually also covered with more hair than westerners. When you get one of these guys all wet and sweaty in a hot and horny fuck session, the masculine/musky smell from under his arms is over-whelming and intoxiating, and totally different from the odor of a westerner. this is probably because they are so very clean and always shower prior to sex. It's a real sexual turn-on to feel the pain of penetration when his hard and erect manhood gets all the way inside my body, to impale me on it and make me feel him full measure. The best part, of course, is his long lasting, hard and deep thrusting into the very core of my insides. When he sweats on me, and the black hair under his arms gets all tangled and matted under his arms, I just want to smell and taste him, licking, sucking and chewing on the sweaty hair.
michael072
12-10-2008, 10:07 AM
Hey Matt, thats a way to discribe it. Thats the fysical, erotic/sensual-part of the story. I'am new on this forum en have to find my way around here. Most of the time I experience also that the Middle Eastern man are hygienic en clean. But for the other, non Middle Eastern- man there are a lot who will as clean en hygienic as them But my compliments for you for the well chosen words.
Azhdeha
12-10-2008, 11:22 AM
Pretty much the same reason as most people, there is this sexiness about them, this virility, andntheir EYES. I lived my whole life in Dubai, and god, I know why i like em lol.
new_try
12-27-2008, 06:12 PM
I only had the experience with one arab but I particularly liked his nice smooth tanned body, his hard nippels and his long fat cock which would cum very tasty sperm

He has one of the most gorgeous smiles I've ever seen with rather long eyelashes and very dark short hair and cute little moustache.

Other than that he smells so nice and when holding him in my arms it just felt right every time. I really miss him now
matt1981
12-28-2008, 01:38 AM
i met the young son of the Arab family who owned the corner grocery store when he delivered a shopping order. once he got inside, we both knew! his younger body was very smooth, which probably accounted for the fact he got really turned on with my blonde chest hair, but what was surprising was the large amount of armpit and crotch hair this kid had. his armpits were thick, dense and bushy, and the black hair stuck out toward his chest even with his arms down at his sides. his crotch was a large massive triangle of thick and curly black pubes that stuck out the sides and the top of his jock-strap. he fucked me like a demon processed, thrusting his fuck pole in and out of my body with fast, hard and deep plunges that made me cry out in fuck pain. every once in a while he would sink it hard all the way in and just grind his sweaty pubes all over my ass, making me feel him full measure inside my body, impaling me on his thick long shaft. he body got all wet and sweaty on me and made my body glisten with perspiration. i felt his hairy balls slapping against my ass throughout all the thrusting and he made my ass slick and greasy from my ass sweat and his oozing pre-cum. the smell of him fucking me was totally awesome. the black thick hair under his arms got all sweaty, tangled and matted to his skin and spread out over a larger area. he literally was dripping sweat on me. the smell was totally masculine - strong, pungent rich masculind odor of man-to-man sex. he came inside me by thrusting one last final time, sinking inside me all the way, and just resting there getting me feel it swell up and thicken even more just before it started to throb and pulsate and begin the process of pumping the hot thick load of cum up out of his body and into my body. he really liked it when i started licking, sucking and chewing on his sweaty thick armpit hair at the same time his balls were releasing their load inside me.
Bisexual40
01-04-2009, 05:16 PM
I like Arabs because they are really sexy:) they are so hot and so sensitive:)
matt1981
01-05-2009, 01:09 AM
for me, it's still their body hair! even the ones with smooth chests have full thick bushes of black hair under their arms and most sport a huge triangle of thick and curly black hair at their crotches. the smell is awesome - so clean smelling and yet very masculine smelling - all that thick black hair under the arms all wet and sweaty, tangled and matted makes them look so very masculine.
grethomory
01-12-2009, 04:56 AM
Why I like Arabs? I like all guys...and attracted to many. I could say the thing I like most about them is not the physical, but internally they are such nice guys...at least the ones I have dated.
Scott747
01-12-2009, 05:45 AM
I like Arabs basically because I appreciate the culture. The devotion to family, the hospitality to visitors, the openness and friendliness once you get past the Westerner VS. Arab junk. But for me I fell in love with a young Arab guy who treats me like a god - and i don't deserve it. It's been three years now and we are seperated from each other by 7.000 long and lonely miles. We see each other maybe four or five times a year - he has relatives in the USA and I travel for business to the Middle East often. We cam and chat and phone each other maybe five or six times a week but it isn't enough. What amazes me about him is how dedicated he is to me. He is gay as opposed to just "poking" other men now and again and it is very difficult for him. He's hoping - as I am - to come to the US for his master's degree which I'm helping him with. He is a kind, generous, funny, passionate, loving and a truly beautiful human being. I encourage everyone here to not think of Arabs as just fucking machines (which, in my experience, they excel at) and see them as the truly sophisticated, mature, wonderful human beings with a long, proud and rich cultural history which continues to this day.
alextra
01-17-2009, 04:11 AM
I love arab men there r hot sex on bed
SwimBod
01-28-2009, 03:49 AM
Arab men are so mysterious
And have big ones too LOL
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exciteme
01-28-2009, 07:56 PM
I think Arab guyz of various complexions are awesomely hot. They are attractive, seductive and genuine. I think they have an untapped sexaulity that I'm curious to experience. Tops or bottoms I've experienced were incredible. Wow I'm getting excited.
buddygunzz
01-29-2009, 05:51 AM
I like their light tan sand colored toes and feet. I like their hairy chests and low waists. I like the accent of an arabic guy and the high hairline, i think its pimp. especially the feet
noahrox22
01-30-2009, 01:39 AM
i like the hair.
frnkly8
02-05-2009, 03:51 PM
As a non-arab I find myself attracted to the total opposite of what I am or was! I was blond blue eyes fair complexion and have always been attracted to sexy arabs, the darker complexion, the dark hair and eyes that sparkle when they smile. And they know how to make love to you. You might not be the only one in thier life but they make you feel special as long as no one else knows what is going on between you and him.
ArabicTop
02-07-2009, 01:55 PM
Well .. your words made me very horney now .. lol

Am a 35 years old Bi-Sexual Man from Jordan ...
And I just love feminen-like bottoms .. crossdresers .. and shemales ..
I also loves to own as much slaves as I could .. and make them work hard to creat my slavery farm ... where I own everything .. filled with sweet sexy bottoms to please my fantasies and needs ...
And if I like it .. I would rent-out some of my slaves ...

Ohhh .. you non-arab .. and also arab bottoms .. the feminen ones .. makes me very hot and wanna make love ..

Contact me now .. to offer yourself for me .. to announce my ownership of you ...
tiffany_tv
02-07-2009, 03:37 PM
Wow , sounds like the ideal Man . i can only dream of having an Arab Master to serve him and then have him rent me out.
Shame we are too far apart , maybe there is one here in London ?
Tiffany
xxxx
ArabicTop
02-07-2009, 07:01 PM
Hi there sweety

Well destance is not a problem nowadays as you know

Ummm ... nice .. then you wel become my first slave from this place ... for sure you have a place in my futture slavery farm

contact me o my yahoo now ... worldsking[AT]yahoo.com …
Scott747
02-07-2009, 08:40 PM
Hey man, don’t forget that slavery is illegal – even in Jordan. On the other hand, I wouldn’t mind exploring some ancient practices with you. LOL!!
ArabicTop
02-07-2009, 08:50 PM
Hey man, don’t forget that slavery is illegal – even in Jordan. On the other hand, I wouldn’t mind exploring some ancient practices with you. LOL!!

I love to own slaves ,,,,, I can not help it … lol .. but anyways .. my farm well be privet

welcome in sexy slave
Scott747
02-07-2009, 10:03 PM
You got it baby!!! Anytime you want! Thanks for welcoming me to your farm. Hope I live up to your expectations!!!
SwimBod
02-13-2009, 01:38 PM
oh well, for one thing, Arab men have thick ones

but I am top ……. but i enjoy playng the dick and balls and better still when I enter their hot butts
matt1981
02-14-2009, 03:00 AM
i agree with SwimBob that most i’ve met do have larger (and thicker) cocks than do most guys. but i like them because they are never afraid to vocalize their cries and screams as they suffer the pain of penetration and then take the hard and deep thrusting that i like to make rough and brutal, especially after i cross that point of no return and really start using their body to masturbate my cock. i love their clean sweaty smell as they take the fuck, and even enjoy licking and sucking on their sweaty armpit hair.
SwimBod
02-14-2009, 06:07 AM
very graphic
duan92100
02-17-2009, 01:51 PM
Because they have thick cut cocks. I like cut cocks and big cock head.
SwimBod
02-19-2009, 07:58 AM
yup they have thick cut cocks…

Mine’s uncut and thick too but Asian meat
omarri
02-20-2009, 01:25 PM
hello evrybody i am here
Summerwind
02-20-2009, 06:21 PM
Good evening!
eugene
02-21-2009, 09:29 AM
Its really one of my dreams to have sex with an arab guy..they give me the thrill that i really cant explain. Maybe because of the sexual mystery that the poses….oozing with hotness and ahhhhssss!! Hope i could find one here..and i promise to give him a really hot experience to…cause im a certified good cock sucker and loved being fucked hard!!;)
Xerxes
02-23-2009, 09:07 AM
I love Arab men because they are “in charge”. They want what they want and they expect me to give it to them (and I do!). They don’t want a lot of words and talking and explaining, just rough, hard forceful sex. They leave me feeling like I’ve been used in a very helpful way to making a man happy and healthy and free of entanglements. I can smell them on me after they have left me to clean up, and I can smile all afternoon and night. With luck, they’ll come back again, but no promises. They definitely make me crazy with lust, and could easily worship the ground they walk on. Arabs can turn me into a fetish freak overnight.
tathens
03-08-2009, 04:06 PM
Because I travel to the Middle East a few times each year and these men are such delicious looking forbidden fruit.
Scott747
04-12-2009, 06:51 PM
Actually I don’t think that Arab men are all that different from anyone else — at least those who are really gay. they have the same issues, problems and hangups that we all do — with the extra special difficulty of living (some of them) in countries that are not all that sympathetic to their condition, as it were.
rikkie
04-12-2009, 08:05 PM
I like arabs. They are beautyful, black haired men. Aspecially the truly gay arabs . They are in a difficult position so they need special support
allberto
04-14-2009, 03:16 AM
i just like just cocks:) no matter cut or not:)
grethomory
04-15-2009, 05:55 AM
i just like just cocks:) no matter cut or not:)

me too on that one, :tongue:
Openhatch
04-25-2009, 02:09 PM
ever since I saw the Movie Sex Bazaar , I have been attracted to arab men, the dark eyes, nig dicks and the commandinf attitude..bot would have been in heaven with those three guys in the steam….taking turns at me and coverinf me with their hot thick jizz.
getting hard just thinking about it.
darrel arans
04-25-2009, 06:21 PM
i love them because they never loose track of their manhood. if he is a true top-you can “take it to the bank” he will never for any reason be anything but a top. i love the arabic languages also, and yes how sexy and earthy the men are.
Mike_Atlanta
05-03-2009, 12:40 PM
I like the beautiful color of their skin, their jet black hair and those wonderful deep dark eyes that can see right into the heart of my soul, not to mention the rest of their bodies! Keep those arabic men coming ! I love ‘em!
nudebranch
05-03-2009, 01:34 PM
There is this unexplainable magnetism that Arabs draws me to them. Hoping to meet one someday.
darrel arans
05-03-2009, 02:35 PM
i lived in turkey a few years and dated an arab man there. turkey is not an arab nation-but i was lucky to find him there on buisness. me in my uniform and him dark and beautiful with his lovely smile, dark hair, beautiful white smile and penetrating eyes, caused my heart to swell the first time we met. his english was not good-and my arabic was even worse, but when there is an attraction you somehow learn to get around the language thing. we dated for 2 yrs until i left and it was the saddest day of my life. of course the sex was more than great! but one thing i learned and must advise about arab men; they are very much men. they are prideful of their culture and demand respect-especially from a lover. me being a bottom i had no problem whatsoever in submitting to him in every way or giving him the respect he commanded. there were times that when he spoke to me in english or arabic i understood my place with him. he was loving, caring but forceful in his manners towards me. when he wanted sex-i didn’t understand the word or words in his language-nor did he in english, but each time, when he would grab my ass and i would stroke the bulge in his pants-we both understood the meaning of what he needed and what i wanted. his sex was strong and at times very painful but i grew to love his way of taking me down and getting the very best of what i had to offer him. our parting has stayed with me for years now and if i could find him i’d do just about anything to have him back. i guess that is why i am so passionate about arab men. i’ve gotten to the point that i don’t want any other “race” of man for sex or as a lover. i guess like the saying goes, “stick with what you know best”. i’d add-stick with what you love best, and for me i’m totally in love with the arab man.

darrel arans:heart:
cuteboy22
05-25-2009, 12:29 AM
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cuteboy22
05-25-2009, 12:31 AM
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webmaster
05-25-2009, 12:43 AM
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Xerxes
05-25-2009, 08:30 AM
Arab men have an extra dose of testosterone in their blood. It makes them seem to ooze the sexual heat. You can smell it, see it, taste it and feel it. While getting fucked by an Arab man, all I can think of is GIVING it to him, whatever he wants, as hard as he wants to slam it to me. I don’t know of any other race or type of men who are so smoulderingly sexy.
matt1981
05-26-2009, 10:18 AM
just to feel him inside me, using my body to masturbate his cock, sweating on me with the scent of armpit and crotch sweat, making the hot and humid room reek of man-to-man sex. i love feeling all that thick and curly body hair rubbing against my skin and feeling his pubes grind into my ass when he impales me on it and makes me feel him full measure inside my body. the masculine smell from his thick sweaty armpit hair drives me up the wall with lust and desire. i welcome the pain of penetration and the jolts of sharp thrusting pain as he pounds my ass unmercifully.riding me rough and brutal, working toward his release.
1thatseeks
06-06-2009, 08:15 AM
my response probably wont be a slice of raunchy delights like other forumers have posted. i’m not sure why it is i am attracted to mid eastern men( arab, persian, afghan etc) although i have very little direct contact with them. i feel strangely drawn them, the language, the various cultures, the history etc. simply, there are so many things i find fascinating about them. with respect to the physique, its the swarthy to copper tones in their skin, the deep penetrating eyes they have, the carpet of hairy deliciousness that cloaks their slightly stocky bodies. the beard that may adorn their face.the smile that can hook and sink anyone. Naturally i’m drawn to hairy older guys so that could be it too. sometimes when i see an arab man in a thobe or gallabaya, an infatuation over comes me, leaving me weak in his presence. i also feel overcome with sexual fervor as my eyes try to find evidence of the nudity that lies underneath the thin sheen of fabric that is the thobe, searching for the sway and swing of the delightfully sweet bulge that lies in between, something that i long for since my early youth. i dream for the day that i may get know on personally the feel the embrace of masculinity.

It could be their presence, the feeling of omnious comfort i recieve by simply walking by…or the 1000 and 1 question that race through head. or the fantasies that are conjured through the slightest sight of one.
gaussiemale
06-06-2009, 12:00 PM
mmm … why do i like Arab men??? Easy … they are so MANLY and DOMINANT!!!! i go weak at the knees at the mere thought of them … they’re HOT!!!
ourson819
07-05-2009, 06:13 PM
Arabian men are simply the most beautiful, perfect men…I have never meet a man that can carry himself like an Arab man.
Pure beauty, to look, touch…fell inside you!!!
Love an Arab man, and you will never go back!
vicbeach
07-06-2009, 04:29 AM
i am an attractive gay arab man living in ottawa and i enjoy getting together with non arab guys and giving them the most pleasure possible. get back to me…..maybe we can get together and i can give you the ecstasy you desire……..i am very well endowed and know how to use it!!!!
ourson819
07-06-2009, 05:13 AM
You should call me.
Can you accommodate? I just got 2 tennants here, today, so cannot for 3 weeks…I will not last that long knowing you are just accross the river…

Francois

819-360-4437
xxlforyou
07-07-2009, 11:53 AM
hello,this is alan from london,i have always liked arab men very much,they are unique for me,and good fun to be with
Jamer
07-07-2009, 04:28 PM
I feel atract to arab guys because they’re different to the guy that I am for example. My familly it’s an half from morocco but I’m blond with blue eyes…so all my friends are the typical arab guys. I know that they like guys like me ( for example again) I have 3 exboyfriends arabs and allways was the same …I was looking for dark skind guys they were looking for white guys.
they are much better when they are open mind ( here in my city there are lot of arabs but the just fuck with guys like an entertaiment. They use to say that they are not gays…so I like arabs guys with a touch of occidental vision.
WhiteBttm52
07-08-2009, 03:12 PM
I love the dark eyes and macho attitude. The hairy chest and legs and the way they treat a bottom is the best. Arab men are just the sexiest men around. The men I have met are very nice and thoughtful but also very much in control and i love that.
Brightraven
07-20-2009, 05:28 PM
I think that underlying everything is that ALL Arabic men have a love and respect for their own sex which is unique; none of them think it ’strange’ to kiss or hug a male friend in public as it is considered in other less enlightened cultures. Therefore, there is no ‘quantum leap’ whatsoever in the Muslim world between male platonic love and sexual expression – Often it is a much more natural evolution than in the guilt-ridden, sin-obsessed, occidental cultures where that one small step used to be regarded with righteous, hypocritical horror. Plus of course, there is the mystic, subtle, hidden apsects of sex, hidden behind pure white linen and cotton, where golden skin peeps through, bedecked with dark, glistening hairs! . These Arab men could not be more sensual if they tried! – This NATURAL hidden aspect is what wins everyone over in the end; forget the pinch-tight Levis and the clammy designer T-shirts trying to ripple up a couple of muscles! – They are NOTHING in comparison to the traditional Arab clothes and the utter sensuality of those who wear them!
smooth
07-20-2009, 05:40 PM
your above post is one of the most insightfull artickles ,,,to me u capture the very essence of maleness of the arabic man,,,,,,,,,
Brightraven
07-20-2009, 05:52 PM
Thank you so much! – I should also add, as a child I was intoduced to my father’s sister’s Egyptian husband from Cairo. Sadly, he died in his early 50’s from leukaemia … but I can assure you, this man, in the few hours in all when I had been with him on his infrequent trips to London, showed more love, concern and interest in me than my own father did in all his life! RESPECT, in the end … despite all the incessant negative propaganda being shovelled down our throats … is what makes an Arab stand out … They WANT you to enjoy and appreciate them!
smooth
07-20-2009, 06:09 PM
your last line THEY want you to enjoy and appreciate them ,,,,,,so true in my own life ,,,ive found the same thing my bf was allways more concerned with my pleasure too ,,,he was a lovely lebanese man ,
Brightraven
07-20-2009, 06:23 PM
I am so sorry you are saying your boyfriend ‘was’ always concerned with your pleasure! – I have to assume you lost him somehow … But for sure, as you are a man who DOES appreciate the Arabic man, a beautiful man will come and love you again. – I am hoping for it to happen the first time round; even at my late stage of life (67!) … The problem is I already did the father-role thing with a Spanish boy 27 years younger for 8 years. – It tired me out! … Now a beautiful young Saudi Arabian fellow, not in the gay scene at all, wants to claim me! I just don’t know if destiny is going to turn our dreams into reality yet; only time will tell! – But here again is respect, this young fellow constantly declares his love for me; hardly a day goes by when he doesn’t tell me! God bless your Lebanese friend, wherever he is.
ourson819
07-25-2009, 03:42 AM
Very simply, arab men are very sexual in life…The way they move, talk, look…Very sexy, sensual.
I dream of finishing my life in the arms…or other positions…of an arab man.
Pure pleasure, know what they want, and how to get it!!!

Love you all!!:heart::wink_smile:
xxlforyou
07-25-2009, 10:43 AM
maybe because gay sex is forbidden in the arab world the senseof danger,or excitement this causes enhances arab sex,it certainly ranks high in th world
Brightraven
07-25-2009, 11:23 AM
Yes … There is a a very valid point just raised … Here in the West there is no sense of restraint whatsoever … cum-an-go is the order of the day. – That means that fleeting sexual gratification is only of the moment, with no thought at all of the value, or hardly even the true consideration of the beauty, of the man in your arms. – Always with one eye on the NEXT conquest! Where there IS restraint, everything is much more intense and much more valued and given much more worth.
WhiteBttm52
07-25-2009, 04:39 PM
I agree that is a big part of it. Since it is more difficult to meet someone there is more passion… and of course the men are all so hot just to begin with. Just looking at Arab men gets me excited. I can hardly wait til I can go visit.
ourson819
07-26-2009, 11:51 PM
to vicbeach: I would trullly enjoy spending time with you.
Give me a call, the tennants are gone…Home is open…
Ciao ciao bello!!
matt1981
07-27-2009, 09:48 AM
the thick bushy hair under their arms, at their crotch and on their chest. when they get all wet and sweaty during the fuck, all that thick black hair under their arms gets matted and tangled in swirls to their skin and spreads out over a larger area of their underarms and sides. the masculine sweaty smell from their armpit hair is introxicating and they make the entire room reek with the smells of man-to-man sex – that masculine smell of armpit and crotch sweat. it drives me up the wall and all i want to do is lick, suck and chew on his sweaty thick armpit hair – taste it inside my mouth and smell him. totally awesome!
ButtyBoy
07-27-2009, 01:11 PM
It’s funny how many people seem to like Arabs for their bodyhair, while others (like me) love the hairless Arabs. I mainly have experienced Moroccan guy and most of them were very smooth and I really love that.
sahero88
08-02-2009, 06:22 PM
is richer than the smell it leaves the screws, because the milk accumulated in the thick hair of ass gives a nice smell sex …. I enjoy a lot when they fucks
giannigeile
08-23-2009, 02:09 PM
Well their slim build, beautiful skin and graceful movements

eyes to die fore, lashes 4ever and hair well cared for

sexuality in everything they do, look and move

also something mysterious

anything else?

Yes their cocks

enough?

giannigeile
Angelboy1269
09-10-2009, 11:46 PM
Arabs are really fun and HOTT!!
Angelboy1269
09-11-2009, 12:29 AM
Are Arabs better lovers than others?
darthhaxor
09-16-2009, 11:43 PM
All the arabs I have seen have thick cocks and I really really really like that. and they seem to cum alot, which I also like alot.
ourson819
09-16-2009, 11:48 PM
I wish I could find such a man in my area…It is the capital of Canada…Must one or a few arab men in here who would like to either make love, or fuck the hell out of me…
And yes, arab men are great lovers…
sahero88
09-17-2009, 05:42 AM
and have not flavor the hairy ass are wealthy Arab loa by hairy, and you can shave them give them with you tongue.
marko80
09-17-2009, 08:04 AM
ther are so many reasons, why, i as an non arab, like arab guys, there dark skin, dark hair, dark eyes, great built, they are macho….
i can go on and on…..
matt1981
09-17-2009, 09:33 AM
hairy chests, as well as hairy armpits and a large triangle of thick and curly black hair at their crotch is a huge turn-on to me! especailly when they get all wet and sweaty in a hot and horny fuck session, where the entire room just reeks with the smells of man-to-man sex – those masculine smells of armpit and crotch sweat. makes me crazy with lust and desire.
granja
09-17-2009, 02:50 PM
Mostly because……….(something that has not been said on this forum before.)….. they are, in general, wonderful , honest, open, generous, loving, clean, trustworthy, people. I have lived in the Middle East and North Africa for a good number of years, and I have met, loved and been loved by many types of Arabs. I am proud to say that I have friends from nearly all the Arabic countries, and if I had to single out my favourites, it would be too difficult to choose.
Firstly each end every one is a human being and not a piece of meat, if you offer your hand in friendship it will be accepted….and treasured. Sure some of them are poor and others rich, in any society we get those differances, but in my opinion , having met and enjoyed the company and companionship of Arabs from all of the economic and social spectrums, I can honestly say that its not a question of colour or macho or any of those superficial reasons. They simply are the most gentle, kind, strong and enthusistic lovers on the planet. I think an extraordinary fact about most Arabs guys is the fact that the vast majority of them are secure enough in their sexuality to do it with another guy without being “labelled”. Also a lot depends upon which country they are from. The guys from the Gulf will treat you as a best friend,and love you both in and out of bed whereas the guys from North Africa see you as more of a means to an end……. But still if you are patient and kind to them they will reward you with their friendship and affection.
Sure, if you just want sex, then consider that they too may feel exactly the same and treat you…………….as a peice of meat.!
TransGirl.nl
09-19-2009, 12:45 AM
Because I don’t like the alternatives LOL
davezgz
09-19-2009, 06:19 PM
I like arab boys because they are amazingly good looking and their sensuality is awesome….any arab boy please contact me¡¡
maceov
09-21-2009, 01:24 AM
Personally, I love Arab men for their unbridled passion, honesty and breathtaking bodies. They are passionate kissers, amazing lovers, and know how to work their big cocks into a VERY appreciative pretty boy. They are also sweet, thoughtful and oh-so-appreciative that they are getting their cocks rocked, licked, sucked and fucked.
hetfi
09-21-2009, 01:13 PM
Because I don’t like the alternatives LOL

Straight to the Point
LOL :shades_smile:
wray
10-10-2009, 01:58 PM
Not all Arabs are hot and sexy. However many are. The ones I have met and experienced are usually well travelled, well educated, speak English as well as Arabic, have masculine sporting interests like me, don’t drink too much and absolutely love hot sex and love to do anything in bed. opposites attract!
smooth
10-10-2009, 02:16 PM
hi thats a very well written post ,,,u r exactely right ,,,,i had a wonderfull affair with a very nice lebanese man ,,,he was well educated ,,,spoke fluent french english and arabic,,,but most of all was his infectious smile ,,,his beautiful green eyes ,,,,of course he was a marvelous lover too ,but he will always be in my heart,,,,as well . i never have had a lover such as him before or since , un fortunately hes now gone from my life ,,,,,but i’ll never forget him,,,,,,,,,,,,,
eltrasgo
10-13-2009, 08:20 PM
They are masculine,good looking,big eyes,cut cocks
German_in_US
10-14-2009, 06:10 AM
Maybe it is because in Arabic culture it’s ok to be affectionate towards men. Sometimes it nice to be in a culture where you can hug on your friends and be close to your male friends in public. That’s what attracts me to Arabic men

By the way, Being gay is not just about sex. There are sexy people in all cultures. Being gay is more about who you are able to fall in love with and whom that you want to be your you life mate.
It’s sad that most gays from the west who come to these sites only see a cock and not the person it belongs to.
wray
10-14-2009, 12:02 PM
German has another interesting possibility.

I appreciate the difference in male friednship in ME/Gulf to that of western world:tongue:

TransGirl.nl
10-17-2009, 02:17 AM
It’s sad that most gays from the west who come to these sites only see a cock and not the person it belongs to.

This is very true
forthbridge
10-19-2009, 08:40 PM
I like my Arab frends for a lot of reasons. Mostly they don’t drink alcohol or if they do they don’t get drunk. They are clean, if you taste their dick you are not put off because it has not been washed. They are affectionate. They don’t rush away as soon as they have fucked you, they will stay holding you and talking afterwards. Also important for me many of them like older fatter men and show it when you are in bed together.
smooth
10-19-2009, 09:24 PM
yeah what u say forthbridge is so true ,,,in my situation too ,,,,i’m a chubby older white guy who had a lebanese bf ,,,he was about 35 ,,,i’m 55 ,,,he was so sweet and affectionate ,,and unlike american guys he loved my chubbyness and everything ,,,,,we are not together now for other reasons ,,,,,,but he was the love of my life ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
ButtyBoy
10-26-2009, 12:16 AM
yeah what u say forthbridge is so true ,,,in my situation too ,,,,i’m a chubby older white guy who had a lebanese bf ,,,he was about 35 ,,,i’m 55 ,,,he was so sweet and affectionate ,,and unlike american guys he loved my chubbyness and everything ,,,,,we are not together now for other reasons ,,,,,,but he was the love of my life ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

I don’t mean this in a bad way smooth, but I have been reading about your ex Libanese friend for years now in these forums. Isn’t it time for you to move on? I’m sure that he has moved on by now? Again, I don’t mean it in a bad way. I hope you get what I’m saying? You’ve gotta live now, no-one else is gonna do it for ya!
smooth
10-26-2009, 12:32 AM
yeah hes moved on to jail,,thanks for your kind thoughtfull words,,,i’m sure u mean well though
ourson819
11-09-2009, 04:59 AM
Very nicelly said Azarab!!
So true!!
wray
11-09-2009, 10:01 AM
I think everything positive has already been said. As a 55 GWM I have found married arab men to be the most considerate, affectionate lover one could ever wish for
australguy
11-14-2009, 09:37 AM
Arab men are handsome, masculine, beautiful men, their dark features sexy eyes and rugged manly personality is so attractive to me. Their dark skin smooth or hairy brings out their true sexuality and beauty. Thats just the outside….inside they are even sexier.

Arab men know how to be sensual, affectionate and sexually daring and pleasing. Whether married (bi) or gay they show their affection openly and its only because of their loving culture, where men can show affection to other men. Their masculinity is not any less when they are with a guy, and as a maculine man this is what I look for in a man.
ButtyBoy
11-26-2009, 01:31 AM
Arab men are handsome, masculine, beautiful men, their dark features sexy eyes and rugged manly personality is so attractive to me. Their dark skin smooth or hairy brings out their true sexuality and beauty. Thats just the outside….inside they are even sexier.

Arab men know how to be sensual, affectionate and sexually daring and pleasing. Whether married (bi) or gay they show their affection openly and its only because of their loving culture, where men can show affection to other men. Their masculinity is not any less when they are with a guy, and as a maculine man this is what I look for in a man.

Beautifully said!
australguy
11-29-2009, 02:15 AM
Beautifully said!

Thanx Butty, I stand by every word
albertsmit01
12-04-2009, 02:24 AM
Passionate, Hot-blooded, Sensual, Smooth, Tanned Skin, Cut dicks…. must I continue?
sucre
12-05-2009, 11:28 AM
hello everyone , anybody who have information about Moroccan Berber, are they Arab kind too?
Raquel
12-05-2009, 07:43 PM
I believe that the attitute of Arab men to sex is good as they seem quite willing to try sex with a guy eventhough theyare not ‘Gay’ as such. Of course, the inaccessibility of female sex to them before marriage is a big incentive.
Especially, the North African Arabs are generally well endowed and can be good-looking and charming! I find that in my experience thay are attracted to feminine guys , as I suppose they beleive that thaey will be the passive ‘bottom’ and are more like a woman and don’t feel so guilty in fucking them and showing affection towards them.
420zboy69
12-12-2009, 06:06 PM
Dark hair, Dark eyes, usually hairy & uncut…..those things intrest me!
eradesso
12-14-2009, 01:43 PM
i will be very honest though i may sound cynical..especially for someone my age :biggrin:

but, as i said in my “introduce yourself” post i can’t describe myself as a traditional bisexual because i have no “feelings” involved nor have i ever gone for “full” sex with a man.

As far as men are concerned in general, what turns me on wild is the fantasy, the quest, the locations etc that takes place before the actual act, not much the act itself.

But the real turn on for me is: having what you couldn’t normally have.
That translates: straight men.

Of course I do love dark skin, eyes, and hair. I do love rough, masculine men. Those who are just the essence of manliness. No frills. Typical of many Arabs.

Only thing I hate about them is the fact they are circumcised!!! :tongue:
eltrasgo
12-15-2009, 02:21 AM
That’s the good things about the arabs,being circumcised,unlike the europeans and latin americans.
eradesso
12-15-2009, 08:19 AM
i suppose that’s a matter of preference but being circumcised to me is all but a good thing.. :tongue:

That’s the good things about the arabs,being circumcised,unlike the europeans and latin americans.
wray
12-16-2009, 11:21 AM
I did enjoy the humour in this post. he’s not gay but dislikes circumcised men…hahaha

CXheck out the stats on HIV for circumsised V’s uncircumcised ..you’ll love circumsized after that read
eradesso
12-16-2009, 11:49 AM
didn’t know someone had to be gay in order to have a preference

besides, you might want to read some more studies, especially the United Nations’ study about HIV where that thesis has been rebutted.
It is only alleged that foreskin cells are more susceptible to be infected during penetration.

As I said, I do not have penetration of any kind with men, and I don’t do unsafe sex with girls.

Besides, if you think being circumcised is your passport to disease-free life I wouldn’t be surprised to find out you’re hiv+

I did enjoy the humour in this post. he’s not gay but dislikes circumcised men…hahaha

CXheck out the stats on HIV for circumsised V’s uncircumcised ..you’ll love circumsized after that read
420zboy69
12-16-2009, 12:51 PM
didn’t know someone had to be gay in order to have a preference

besides, you might want to read some more studies, especially the United Nations’ study about HIV where that thesis has been rebutted.
It is only alleged that foreskin cells are more susceptible to be infected during penetration.

As I said, I do not have penetration of any kind with men, and I don’t do unsafe sex with girls.

Besides, if you think being circumcised is your passport to disease-free life I wouldn’t be surprised to find out you’re hiv+
:confused:
quick heads up: HIV doesnt care either. hiv loves both cut & uncut
….. HELLO? did I miss something??
420zboy69
12-16-2009, 12:52 PM
again, PERSONALLY, i like uncut, but I never pass Judgement either way, I do hate the fact the choice to be uncut was never given to me…Im cut!
eltrasgo
12-17-2009, 06:20 AM
Not even to worry about HIV/AIDS. An unct dick doesn’t look as nice as a cut one. Personaly,I don’t even touch a guy when I see he’s uncut. You can even smell the difference. No matter how much they try to keep it clean,the urine smell is always gonna be present,besides feeling that humid touch. In the States,the norm is to see cirumcised men,regardless of religion,nationality or race.
eradesso
12-17-2009, 08:31 AM
LOL you’re cock racist and i find myself disagreeing on many things you say:

1) to me uncut looks more beautiful than cut – of course it’s the upbringing that counts.. being born in Italy.. I think my first circumcised cock was when I was around 18/20 years old and trust me first thing I told the guy was “what’s up with your cock something’s missing” :biggrin: so to me the norm to me is uncut while cut just looks mutilated to me.

2) the hygiene fact is just a big pile of BS you’re either a clean person or you’re not. Connecting this to the arabs, I’ve seen thousands of Arabs peeing at urinals and then washing their cocks with the water that leaks down the urinal EWWWWWWWW is that hygiene? that water is a themed park for bacteria!

3) to me uncut is waaaaay more fun to play with, first the foreskin brings much more pleasure both for its sensitivity and also for the friction it causes with the gland. I find wanking a circumcised cock to be the weirdest and toughest experience unless you have lots of saliva to spare or lube.

4) i don’t know what cocks you’ve been sucking but i smell nothing like pee. Hello? We peel the foreskin back to pee?! Well ok, not all do :tongue:
it would be like saying every ass smells like poo no matter how you wash it. or maybe you only rim guys who had their buns mutilated? :tongue:

Not even to worry about HIV/AIDS. An unct dick doesn’t look as nice as a cut one. Personaly,I don’t even touch a guy when I see he’s uncut. You can even smell the difference. No matter how much they try to keep it clean,the urine smell is always gonna be present,besides feeling that humid touch. In the States,the norm is to see cirumcised men,regardless of religion,nationality or race.
chubbywest
12-17-2009, 09:04 AM
This may be a generalisation , but have arab bf’s and they btend to still act like men, have good family values and have a good sense of right and wrong and are prepared to express their views and beliefs. somthing the european has lost
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 07:55 PM
i liek arabs
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 07:57 PM
darker skin and black hair and big cocks
thats what i like
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 07:58 PM
i thk oriental men are the best in the world
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 07:59 PM
i like cut and uncut dicks
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:04 PM
hairy legs are so horny
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:05 PM
many of arab guys a sooooo hairy
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:09 PM
and if there is any arab man
who is inteested in me
please write me
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:10 PM
i have msn
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:14 PM
big dick arab cocks
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:15 PM
turkish guys are hot too
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:18 PM
lol thats fun
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:19 PM
uncut cocks dont smell
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:20 PM
i had a frien with a uncut cock
an his cock does not smell
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:21 PM
and i am uncut too
burningsoul
12-17-2009, 08:21 PM
ddddddddddddddddddddddd
chubbywest
12-17-2009, 10:21 PM
i adore arab guys, dont mind smooth or hairy
mysticparadi
12-19-2009, 09:23 PM
Lol, yeah haha. It doesn’t matter
PGHScorpion
12-26-2009, 11:07 PM
I’ve met and gone out with a couple of Arabic and other Middle-Eastern men, and aside from the incredible dark features, and outstanding sex appeal, I most like the fact that they are well educated, strong and masculine without being macho idiots, they tend to be gentle and passionate…at least those I’ve met. I do wish I could meet one in Pittsburgh, or NYC who would actually like to date.

William in Pittsburgh
tall4u
01-04-2010, 12:35 AM
Arab men are delightfully hairy and dark and handsome.
LoneWolf66
01-16-2010, 05:23 PM
I had a powerful dream once a long time ago. I was lost in a desert, I was going to die soon when a man appeared above me as I took my last breath. The sun was strong and I could barely see who he was but I could tell he was dark skinned, so that man was Latino/Hispanic, Native American or of Arabic descent. But I know he gave me water to live by and we loved each other and we lived together for the rest of our lives.

That is my dream.
australguy
01-16-2010, 06:07 PM
I had a powerful dream once a long time ago. I was lost in a desert, I was going to die soon when a man appeared above me as I took my last breath. The sun was strong and I could barely see who he was but I could tell he was dark skinned, so that man was Latino/Hispanic, Native American or of Arabic descent. But I know he gave me water to live by and we loved each other and we lived together for the rest of our lives.

That is my dream.

Now thats a perfect dream, Lonewolf66…Im def with you on this, its was a sign
matt1981
01-17-2010, 10:34 AM
I’ve posted these thoughts before, but once again I’d say it’s the large amounts of body hair that makes them look extremely masculine and therefore very sexy. My mouth just drools when I see a hot looking Arab dude lift his arms and expose those dark thick bushes under his arm, sticking out every which way and so dense you cannot see his skin under the hair. An Arab will have the largest and thickest triangle of curly hair at his crotch than any other man in the room. It sticks out the sides and the top of his jock-strap. It’s just a great added bonus if his broad muscular upper chest is also covered with a fine coating of dark hair. Their are also usually more well-endowed than the American guys, and certainly thicker than the average shaft. If you ride one, you don’t soon forget! These guys are “clean” and the pure masculine testosterone pumping out of their armpits and making all that hair wet and sweaty during the fuck session, is loaded with chemicals and hormones that make you hot and horny for his cock. There are active and passionate in bed and can make the entire room just reek with the smells of man-to-man sex – those strong masculine smells of armpit and crotch sweat. With an Arab dude, you ride the waves of pain and pleasure while he masturbates his cock inside your body.
adriaan1
01-17-2010, 02:02 PM
I’d like to know why you (non-Arabs) like sex with Arabs so much. I think I already know (LOL), I’m just curious if your reasons are the same as mine

If you think that we Europeans are all teh same in our sexual whises I think you´re wrong. Your whis can, and probable is, other than mine. I like to look at Arabs to find out where are the differences. Till now I did not find them.
adriaan1
01-17-2010, 02:06 PM
Arab men are delightfully hairy and dark and handsome. My god, never heard worse. As if there are no non-hairy Arabs. Wake up and look better.
PGHScorpion
01-17-2010, 02:07 PM
Do the Gay Arabs hate American guys?
maroc22
01-17-2010, 04:07 PM
My god, never heard worse. As if there are no non-hairy Arabs. Wake up and look better.

yes the are, but the only don’t have the sex apeal;)
maroc22
01-17-2010, 04:09 PM
If you think that we Europeans are all teh same in our sexual whises I think you´re wrong. Your whis can, and probable is, other than mine. I like to look at Arabs to find out where are the differences. Till now I did not find them.

you only see, what you like to see.
the are so many big differnece between a non-arab, and a arab men.
adriaan1
01-18-2010, 05:55 PM
i adore arab guys, dont mind smooth or hairy

I adore all kind of guys…..not just the arab-ones
adriaan1
01-18-2010, 05:56 PM
you only see, what you like to see.
the are so many big differnece between a non-arab, and a arab men.

Such as???
sahero88
01-18-2010, 10:25 PM
fuck now
Earth just finished ..
adriaan1
01-20-2010, 11:34 PM
that’s all?
Roughlover77
01-22-2010, 01:48 PM
They are so fucking butch!!!!!! What more can i say?!
Colosus
01-24-2010, 01:55 AM
Because they are hairy, very masculine and very beautiful !
maroc22
01-24-2010, 11:17 AM
Such as???

to many to write;)

there are hot, not cold.
giannigeile
01-24-2010, 04:00 PM
Hi Adriaan, MAROC22!

Let’s meet and cheque out the differences, if there are any? hahaha

I am looking for a nice maroccan guy. giannigeile.

On Sunday I spent an enjoyable day at the Alameda Flea Market. Unlike most flea markets and garage sales where you have to wade through a lot of pure junk to find anything good, the Alameda Flea Market is just the opposite. EVERYthing there is something I want, the challenge is that it’s all very expensive.

With that in mind, I learned long ago to just enjoy it as I would enjoy a museum. I know I can’t (or shouldn’t try to) own everything that catches my eye, and I just appreciate the beauty of quirkiness of the treasures before me. It’s okay to let someone else take them home.

I did, however, score one prize. The oil painting on the left of the handsome young Arab man is about 18″ by 24″. It somehow stood out from a pile of crappy paintings that a vendor was very anxious to liquidate right away. I couldn’t read the signature, but it’s dated 1946. The look on his face is both haunting and seductive. I think I am in love. Forbidden love is the most seductive, too.

Since the painting only cost a mere $3, I believe I was meant to own it. I made a special trip to the nearest thrift store at nearly closing time to buy the perfect frame, which ended up costed three times the price of the painting. ($9 is still cheap for good frame, though!)

After bringing home that painting, I started to think about other swarthy, exotic men. Ever since the first Gulf War, I’ve been expecting a big new crop of gay porn movies featuring Arab men. Well, after some very long military conflicts in the Middle East, we still don’t have much in the way of gay porn movies featuring men of Middle Eastern or Arabs. Sure, Raging Stallion had huge hits with Mirage and Arabesque a few years ago, but they were shot right here in Northern California.

I did a little search at Alexander Pictures and Collin O’Neil seem to be the only studios making an effort to shoot gay porn movies in the Middle East. Alexander Pictures just added Arabian Playhouse to Gay Video Cafe, and they have a few other titles in the vein of Arab gay porn coming soon. Spend a couple bucks on pay per view to see what you think.

‘I once went on my holidays to a small town in Tunisia where men were famous for having big fat cocks. A small town that is nearly impossible to get to. They don’t see many tourists. By the time I left i was famous as well. i just didn’t suck, i paid as well. Clever old me’

‘There were several Arab guys living in Nashville several years ago. They all said that they were not gay. But they would go to the nearby gay bar. I had the pleasure of getting together with about three of them. They were rather selfish, and just wanted to get off, or be gotten off. Suited me. Each of them were a bit larger than normal and had smooth, silky smooth light brown skin. Very nice’

‘I am a part-arab. I love to have wild sex with arab men, but I find them to be somewhat selfish. However, since I love to be fucked. I dont mind. These guys are pretty strong and wild when it comes to sex, but they are also shy’

‘i met a arab man at metro and we were talking than he noticed i was looking him down so he offerd me to go n the back office and took out his big fat cock and bended me over and banged me hard on the couch it hurt so bad but felt so dam good and he pulled my hair and slapped me uhhh so good stuff.’

‘I just pass all my time searching in the web for an Arab men with a HUGE Cock. Finally I´d found the right Arab man with the size of cock I need to be happy. You are the arab hunk of my dreams. I´m a man 40 years.Love arab men. I want my ass and my mouth to be well fucked. Need to have my asshole monstruosly streched by big pricks like yours. need to swallow all the cumloads you could spurts into my mouth. Need to feel all the long of yours huge cock deep in my throat. If you are alone, and have not wife and don´t mind to fuck homosexual men, I offer you my life, my house and my money. I’m from Spain and live in Málaga. I want to be yours. Belief me man!! I need your cock and your balls!!’

It is said that entire life of an Arab and his thoughts are centered around the opposite sex. Thus even at the age of 55 to 60 years he is on the look out for another young wife.

What is the difference between Westerners’ and Arabs’ attitude towards sex? The habits of these men are controlled by the social circumstances, religion, permissiveness, alcoholism and many other factors.

While the Western boys start having sexual intercourse with their girl friends, from the age of 15 or 16, an Arab boy cannot dream of this till he gets married, which is usually after the age of twenty or twenty-five. And till then, he has to hide facts of even nocturnal emissions and masturbation from all persons including his family members! Naturally homosexuality in Arabs is practised off and on at this age—due to non-availability of the opposite sex and not as a new desire, as in Western countries where certain males would prefer homosex to heterosex.

Coming to married adult Arab who is, by his religion, allowed to have four wives (of course majority of them cannot afford to maintain more than one wife), the main difference in this population and the Western society is the increased frequency of sexual intercourse. Although many of the Arab men would exaggerate and you must discount some of their statements, the fact is that they do make many more frequent visits to their wives.

These Arabs have no other entertainment available in their country. Sports are hardly heard of in an average Arab family. Also at all the social get togethers, men always boast of their sexual athletic achievements! To this is added plenty of spare time and “less” tension in the population than in Western, fast moving society.

One more factor is the climate. Because of hot weather, their day starts early and finishes by lunch time so that afternoon “nap” is available to majority of them and then why not to take advantage of bedding with their wives at that time!

I am convinced that an average Arab does the sexual exercise much more often than an Indian or a Westerner. An Arab phallus is more often bigger in size, and is maintained very Clean. Part of the looks are because of “clean” circumcision done on them and absence of smegma. Part of the “big” look is due to the absence of pubic hair. The pubis is shaved every few days. Also their semen production is much faster. Many of them would remember their young days when they did, what I have termed as “status coitus”, when during a single intercourse they have ejaculated three to four times without withdrawing the phallus, which got erected soon after every ejaculation!! After discussing in detail the sexual habits of most of my Arab patients, I find, following is the average frequency of the sexual intercourse in this population :

Between the ages of 20 to 40, many Arabs would have (either attempt or wish to have!) a session three to four times a day. Although many of them would have a session in the afternoon or early morning before bath, most of them do have more than one session at night before going to sleep. After that age and around fifty, many would have twice a day. After the age of sixty, most of them continue to have one session per day even till the age of 70 to 80 or more. This habit is not universal though I have had patients who tell me that sexual intercourse has become such a routine that they feel funny, weak or abnormal if they abstain for more than two to three days!

And yet I do see so many “Westernised” Arabs who, in the middle age visit their wives only once or twice a week! But they would be mocked at by their friends (or young wives) if they heard of this “standard” sexual performance!

The sexual problems of Yemenis are complex. Many of them are away from their wives for months together serving in the surrounding countries. Also, though some types of ‘Qat’ are sex stimulating, majority of the times ‘Qat’ depresses the sexual desire and the performance.

The wives of Arab men are covered by veils (”Burkka”) and are often very shy. Because of this discordance and the “joint family” system, with a number of married couples in the same family, many Arabs would like to satisfy their instinct without any “fore play”. This in fact is the most common cause of ‘premature ejacuIation’, which is the main type of sexual weakness complained of by many of them. More so, fore play would be required much more when an elderly male is trying to enter the tight introitus of a young wife!!

I have hardly ever heard any one complain of lack of sexual desire, except a few Yemeni psychoneurotic patients.

The only other sex problem is the erectile impotency. So far, I have not found any organic cause for this symptom, (except a solitary case of shy Dragger Syndrome). As mentioned elsewhere Tabes Dorsalis (Syphilis of C.N.S.) is not seen in this population. Diabetes Mellitus does not seem to affect sex so much as it does in other populations, though, off and on, I do see marked impotency in diabetics. (Vice-versa, I have seen so many diabetic Arabs, who continue to have a normal sex life as described above) .

Most of these patients would agree to and say that they get nocturnal or early morning erections (at the wrong time! according to them) and have functional impotency. There are a lot of factors responsible for”keeping up” this erectile impotency.

1. A single experience of premature ejaculation (”Soraye”) brings about a suspicion in their minds of sex weakness and this leads to erectile impotence
2. They then start communicating with their friends, and hear of their sexual habits, which further increases their inferiority complex and causes more impotence.
3. They then start noticing the quality, quantity and the thickness of semen and get “ideas” that the semen may be defective. More often the specialists would ask for the semen examination as an investigation of erectile impotence (new fashion or is it to satisfy the Arab visitor)! Very often if the report shows slightly low sperm count, it causes more anxiety and leads to more impotence. If one notices the column of “abstinence period” in semen examination reports, it is always blank (may be because of language difficulties). And that is, in fact, many a times, the cause of oligospermia reported in semen examination.

The serum prolactin levels and testosterone levels done on hundreds of my patients were invariably normal.

Most of these patients develop low backache in the morning if their sexual performance has been poor on the previous night. Many of them develop constant psychogenic backache due to sex weakness.

Others develop symptoms of neurosis.

Moroccan/Arab men, as I pointed out earlier, are portrayed to us as obsessed ‘buttocks starers’, time wasters sitting in cafés and street corners studying women’s invisible physiognomy (p 20). They are ‘genetically’ unable to control their urges. Mallouhi tells us that ” a Western breast would [not] be so uninteresting to Moroccan men” (p 20). What’s about Moroccan breasts to European men? Mallouhi does not tell us how she comes to such ‘insightful’ conclusions? Not through sociology, psychoanalysis, cultural theory, ethnography or even commonsensicality. Instead, typical of intellectual laziness and epistemological corruption, she tells us that “Arab culture assumes that there is only one reason why a man and a woman are alone. Sex is up front in every one’ s mind” (p, 28). This is pure orientalism, tautological, and relentlessly simplistic. The author’s stereotyping is irredeemable since she only occasionally and superficially informs us about the status of her Western and Christian realities. It is above refutation that in the post-modern stage of ‘Western’ culture (including some segments of Western Christianity) almost everything has become sexualised. People may not stare in the streets, but are created confined spaces and institutions, (including TV, the Internet, Pleasure lands or clubs, pornographic spaces) heavily charged with sexual expressions and practices in the name of personal freedom of expression. Sex in the ‘West’ is, indeed, in every one’s mind and in every imaginable quotidian space. It has lost a lot of its playfulness, energy of seduction precisely because it has lost the fabric of romance which, by and large, still exits in Moroccan traditional culture.

Staring according to her is a ‘pathological’ condition that Moroccan men suffer from. Whilst one has to objectively scrutinise individual motives in every case, one has to concede, at least, that the rigid feteshisation of society in the ‘West’ is more ‘pathological’ (rendered normal) than staring at passers by in an open space. Mallouhi even traces men’s fear of women to Arabian Nights. She tells us that such a text informs a current situation where “mistrust of woman’s sexuality still prevails” (p. 39). She advocates that such fear has been consistent historically and that is why Muslim/Arab men are ’sexually oriented’. Many of the stories, fairy tales collected in the Arabian Nights are ancient, as ancient as Homeric traditions. The story of Shahrazad and the Sultan Schahriar are, according to Al-mas’udi, an Arab historian, of Persian origin dating back to the 9th century and had been translated into Arabic as the Al kkhurafa (fictional tale). Arabian Nights were told and retold orally — and transmitted from at least four civilisations, Persian, Indian, Islamic and Egyptian. Arabian Nights kept circulating only orally until they were written between the 12th and 14th centuries. The body of narratives that Mallouhi faintly refers to is the one consisting of a group of tales which possibly originated in Baghdad, the hegemonic cultural, economic and political centre of the Abbassid dynasty from 750 AD. In these tales we have the figure of Haroun Alrachid and other important Caliphes. Arabian narratives contain an astounding and unique overlap of fictions, ancient tales, prophetic imagination and magical realism. Mallouhi’s reading of some of these tales is ironically a contradiction in terms, as their fictionality refuses her imposed rigid and heedless interpretation.

These stories do not reflect, in any conceivable way, a mistrust of woman’s sexuality vis-a- vis a specific category called Muslim/Arab men. No doubt, they are fictionalisations of Islamic modernity between the 8th and, possibly, until the 14th century, but most importantly, their worldview is a humanist exploration of man’s (as well as woman’s) human too human trappings. In this sense Arabian Nights is universal, and appeals to all cultures. Shakespeare, for instance, was inspired by its tales; Arabian narrative impulse is easy to detect in most of his plays. Reading Arabian Nights in this reductionist (and dare I say mercenary) manner is like suggesting that Chaucer’s The Canterbury Tales (also inspired by Arabian Tales) elucidates the English natural sense of superiority. Or Shakespeare’s The Taming of the Shrew, the untamibility of English women in the 20th century.

The tales’ so called ‘pornographic’ parts are there to tell a human story about sexual expressions and trappings that exist in all cultures. The tales’ fictional sense of space is seen in an inclusion of homosexual practices, the exploitation of Ghilman (young men for sex) and other forms of sexual practice. If the author brands some parts of Arabian Nights as pornographic, I hope she is able to concede that some parts of the Bible are also pornographic. Mallouhi again resists the fluidity of Arab consciousness as portrayed in these universal tales. She is perfunctorily striving to deliver (and deliver, she does!) what her reader expects. To relate such depiction to a fear engulfing Muslim men in the 20th century is to demonstrate an alarming degree of conceptual mediocrity, and historical misreading of the Arab world.

Why does Mallouhi seem to get most things wrong about Arab/Muslim culture? One thing she never comes to terms with (hence her acrimonious Euro-centrism) is to understand that the essence of Moroccan culture is fluidity and perplexity. Moroccan culture resembles the figure of the Flanneur in Baudlaire’s fiction. The Flanneur is a poet whose environment is the crowd. He merges with the people. He gases at everyone. He is a great observer of spontaneous manners and movement. He occupies a huge space because he owns none of his own. He possesses a passion for visual performance. He is a living man of imagination. For this reason he resists rationalisation, consumerism, mapping of space, construction and confinement. In short, he resists rigidity and domestication. Moroccan daily life is spirited, large, inconsistent and full of surprises. Moroccan public life is a prototype of a fête galante painting.

AMMAN (AROL)– The issue of male homosexuality in the Arab world remains a taboo and untapped subject away from national debate.

This tendency is not spoken about openly– though male-male friction is acknowledged. Nor is it legally recognized in these conservative societies.

While the issue of recognizing male homosexuality is not totally different from other countries, male Arab homosexuality has indeed a different notion from that in the West.

Gay activities are frowned upon in Islam but a set of cultural and traditional taboos has played a role in the acquiescence of much of these sexual activities if confined to a certain set of moral conducts.

That is to say, homosexual behavior may be overlooked but experiencing feelings of an emotional nature beyond sex makes a man gay and hence, a potential outcast. In a society where the family bond, “honor” and image are extremely important, many tend to follow the dictates and norms of society, even if this means living in conflict with their inner feelings.

Sex vs. emotions
Many Arab men make a distinction between sex and emotional attachment. Bruce Dunne, author of an article titled Power and Sexuality in the Middle East, believes that sexual relations in the Middle East are about power. He writes: “Sexual relations in Middle Eastern societies have historically articulated social hierarchies, that is, dominant and subordinate social positions: adult men on top; women, boys and slaves below…Both dominant/subordinate and heterosexual/homosexual categorizations are structures of power.”

Having pure, raw sex with another man and being the active partner doesn’t make a man gay. This notion of same-sex is also true in the West. It differs, however, with regard the application.

“Since the concept of same-sex relations does not exist in the Arab world, being ‘Gay’ is still considered to be a sexual behavior,” says Outreach Director of the Gay and Lesbian Arab Society, Ramzi Zakharia, in an e-mail interview. But according to Western definition, “that limits it to ‘homosexual’ behavior, which does not mean that the person is Gay. Just because you sleep with a member of the same sex does not mean you are Gay… it just means that you are engaging in homosexual activity. Once a relationship develops beyond sex (i.e: love) this is when the term gay applies,” adds akharia.

He believes that gays in the Arab world, unlike those in Western societies, “limit their activities to sex and rarely explore feelings beyond that,” experience.

Impressions from a European
European-born Marcus, who has been in Jordan for two months, has already noticed a remarkable difference between the Kingdom and his native country. While he says that the men he has met generally shy away from emotional intimacy mostly because they experience inner conflicts, these same men are capable of justifying a purely sexual experience.

Having sex (discreetly) is alright, and sometimes even seen as an exploit. It is therefore justified.

Men holding hands or walking arm in arm are familiar scenes in Arab streets. In general men are more intimate with each other than they are in the West and a man without a woman at his side is not really seen as strange, Marcus observes.

These scenes would not draw the eyes of passersby, but the same man-to-man intimacy could be outrightly interepreted in the West as a gay relationship.

“It is much easier to meet men and be close to them here,” Marcus says.

(This article focuses only on male homosexuality. This reporter tried to interview females and to tackle the issue of female homosexuality, without results. Arab and Jordanian women are quite reserved and inhibited on this issue, even anonymously, for fear of causing problems to their friends).

Marcus, 29, is gay. He is in the country for the first time learning Arabic. Marcus preferred not to use his real name. Although he says he feels more at ease about being gay in Jordan than he does in his home town, he did not want his colleagues at work to read his name.

Marcus says he feels comfortable approaching a man in Jordan with frankness about his desires. Even though the man may not be gay there is some sort of “understanding” at what is going on, and little or no offence would be taken.

Some men interviewed in Jordan, however, appeared offended at the mention of this topic and they even refused to bring up the issue in general. When they did finally speak about homosexual behavior and gays– which they believed were the same– they spoke with repulsion and with harshness.

But Marcus says he has not yet experienced anything of this sort and life for a gay in Jordan is much easier in some ways. Back in his home, a man cannot easily approach or look at another man. “We have the legal recognition but we have a social taboo,” Marcus says.

Living a dual life
It may be easier to engage in homosexual behavior, but it certainly is not the case when emotions are involved. This Arab distinction of sex versus emotional attachment is largely derived out of a conflict with dualreligion and tradition. Arab men engage in homosexual behavior, and don’t cross the realm of being gay in order not to morally hurt themselves or their families. These Arab men would prefer (though not because they really want to) to fit into society’s mold and they justify their sexual preferences as “something men do”, and not as “something I do because I am gay.”

If these same people were living in Western societies, they would most probably be gay and not only engage in homosexual sex. In the West, those who are gay will cross the homosexual boundaries, even if that means staying in the closet. In the Arab world, only some do. Many, however, live a dual life.

Indeed, several gay Arab men living in the US have said that when they return to their homes for long visits, they adapt to societal expectations of them as men, become “hypocritical” and engage in only homosexual behavior, if they do at all.

“They (Arab men) do not face friends/families or even themselves with the truth of their identity. Rather, the majority will carry on with society’s plans, get married, get the kids… and then either carry on sexual relations on the side… or vent out their sexual frustrations on Alcohol, Drugs, Spouse Abuse, and other negative and destructive behavior,” according to Zakharia.

Homosexuality for Arabs contradicts and even undermines the male, patriarchal image as a “macho” in Arab societies.

A non-typical Arab male?
One 26-year-old Lebanese of Palestinian origin living in Canada explains his conflict, similar to the feelings of many others like him. The following was received from him by e-mail and is printed without editing. He did not want his name used:

I am a non-typical gay Arab male who grew up in Lebanon and then migrated to Canada. Non-typical, I say, because I find myself very different from the gay Arab men (gay men in general) that I know. And I know quite a few. I am able to find a trend in my behavior as I also recognize the common traits that I find in the men I am acquainted with. This leads me to believe that I am different and perhaps they are the norm.

In addressing my homosexuality I try to reconcile many things, namely religion, family, culture and image. Religion , in my mind, tells me not to over indulge. It also is a source of guilt and fear of God. I am Muslim but my friend tells me that my guilt is a Catholic guilt.

My parents raised me with a set of expectations that no matter how much I fight and how compromising my parents get, still is embedded in me. It is inherent that I must succeed. It is inherent no matter what my limitations are. Not to say that my parents will disown me or hurt me. They are very loving. Too loving sometimes. By too loving I mean that they foster dependence to a point that makes me feel controlled most of the time and safe the rest of the time.

Arab culture as I see it is two tier. One side is the culture itself which I love and want and am proud of, the other level is culture in the context of common society. Arabs are perhaps the most hypocritical ( in my view ) when it comes to values. The facade is that of religion and morality. Behind the closed doors is everything else. The two main things I pray one day will happen are that we will become assertive internationally and protect our rights, the other is that we will undo the sexism that we are notorious for.

The last aspect is image. This is personal. We can blame everyone but we must also look within. I look at myself honestly and I see a guy who does not entirely accept himself. This is the number one hindrance to change. I see myself being proud and then I see myself being quiet and complacent. I attribute that to me. I am not being up to the challenge of being gay. I see myself wanting a woman and children whenever I am acquainted with a girl who may be interested in me in the context of marriage.

As I said I am non-typical or I choose to feel this way. I try to reconcile heterosexual values with homosexual life. I go in circles and I find that it all boils down to me as a person. I have to be happy. I find what makes me feel happy, what fulfills me and the rest just falls into place.

In brief, growing up I was a naive and chronically introverted kid with a lot of imagination and no support or anyone to share with. I was never really able to conceive what sex was in its biological sense until I was in Canada and was reading a lot. I did not know about anal sex until I read about it. I never experimented with other boys. The closest I got to that was physical play such as wrestling with my friend.

How do you know the Earth is not flat until you are told it is not? When one looks at it, the Earth looks flat. Similarly society looks heterosexual.

This young man considers himself a non-typical Arab gay, but another young Arab man pointed out in a response to him that he was in fact typical:

I am a non-typical gay Arab male you’re wrong. You ARE the typical Gay Arab male. Your post was very interesting. You reminded me what I was a few years ago, but also I realized that I didn’t advance so much!. When I go home or when I am with my family, I am exactly like you.

Homosexual sex is not new. It has been around in the Arab world for a long time. The problem is love. “Once you decide to explore your identity beyond sexual activity, once you decide to reject your patriarchal role… this is when you get in trouble,” Zakharia says.

In countries such as Lebanon, Palestine, Egypt, Syria, and Jordan, society is slowly changing and emulating the West. With their proximity to Western culture and thought, and people being exposed to new concepts regarding gender roles and sexuality, platforms for debate on homosexuality are opening up.

In Lebanon, society is slowly shifting from a Patriarchal model to a “nuclear” family model; this year’s attempt to introduce civil marriage is a prime example. Other post-Colonialist countries in the region are following, such as Tunis, Zakharia says.

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